I'm doing 43 things
..how much other people like putting their noses into other people’s affairs! Everybody seems to want to give me an advice, but the advices they are giving me are not good. To be able to give an advice one has to master themselves the thing about which they want to give the advice. And I just see all my friends giving advices themselves knowing nothing about what they give the advice about… I shouldn’t consider such people in this sense. I think I should be coutious about listening to what they say as they don’t bring me positive feelings… Strange.. There are such a few people who do really help me with what they say.. So I shouldn’t even tell my intimate life to all those people who have there own life unorganised. How can they pretend to give me advices? But I still havn’t decided what I should reply to them when they start. Should I just tell:”Sorry, but this concerns only me and my boyfriend and we’ll decide this by ourselves.” This seems not a very nice answer..
So, first of I all, I shoudn’t talk about my private relationships.
Second, when I hear some advice I just shouldn’t concider it if there was nothing.
StupendaFanciulla's Life List
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1. Love R :)
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2. LIVE IN ROME and be with my loved one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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3. Pay attention to my own needs and my desires
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4. Do what I want right now and not postpone it for any longer
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5. Spend my money only on the things I really need
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6. Go to sleep when I want to
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7. Clean theeth very well and make this a habit
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8. Be firm about my diet
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9. Overcome jelousy
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10. Build deep trust with those who love me and care about me
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11. IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING SET IT FREE, if it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was
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12. Get rid of the histrionic behavior
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13. Maintain my room clean
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14. Love Myself unconditionaly :)
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15. Live and realize consciously everything I am doing
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16. Give R as much freedom as he needs, always give him time to think and always wait for him patiently :)
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17. Keep our intimacy for us two
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18. Make myself and my love my priority
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19. Do all those little obligatory things that make our lifes
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20. Believe and trust the Universe
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21. Make positive visualisations every day and believe I merit and can be happy
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22. Plan the next day
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23. Every time I will want to do anything I will think if this action is motivated by love or not. And will do it only if it is motivated by love.
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24. Never settle for anything less than I deserve
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25. Be brave
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26. Love without fear
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27. Speak Italian like an Italian
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28. Love my Love unconditionaly for who he is :)
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29. Talk less, do more!
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30. Be able to concentrate on one task in the moment, if it's an important one
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31. Always tell the truth
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32. Be strong
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33. Inspire my love to draw again :D!!!
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34. Learn to listen
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35. Be a good friend
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36. Love my body and treat it the best way
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37. Learn and enjoy cooking
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38. Strengthen my personality borders
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39. Find good friends in Rome
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40. Calm down and enjoy life
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41. Finish what I start
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42. Be independent
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43. Never say:"Perché tu non...?" ("Why you don't...?")
2 entries . 11 cheers1 person
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