Since he came home early and I was pregnant the whole time he was gone, it just… didn’t work out.
SwelteringCelt's Life List
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2. Be a better blogger
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3. budget better
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4. clean out my shed
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5. clean my room
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6. organize my son's toys
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7. set a steady work schedule
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8. follow my dreams
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9. learn to promote my website
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10. learn how to be a mistress
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11. negotiate with my partner better
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12. learn pilates
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13. be a better reviewer
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14. save my hundred dollar bill
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15. Quit Smoking
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16. be comfortable in my own skin
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17. buy fetish gear
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18. help my friends accomplish their goals
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19. go to exotic erotic ball
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20. Get more sleep
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21. save more money
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22. be a better wife
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23. get a degree
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24. declutter my life
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25. explore my sexuality
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26. take better care of my body
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27. Learn more Patience
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28. lose fat
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29. get more work done
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30. build a better website
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31. do the dishes every day
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32. publish my writings
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33. work on my genealogy
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34. defeat codependence
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35. keep up my house
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36. Get more people to read my Blog
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How I did it: Two good friends of mine on separate occasions took a significant chunk of time to work on doing my makeup and teaching me along the way. Both of them look excellent in their makeup and never fake. Even though I don't wear it every day, I definitely don't panic anymore when events come up that I feel I should wear makeup for. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I simply took care of myself, did the best I could, and followed doctor's orders! I knew well ahead of time that I wouldn't be allowed to give birth naturally, so I prepared for it and focused on just baking that bun as best I could. Happy and healthy is easily used to describe the kiddo now! Read how I did it…
How I did it: My husband and I knew several swingers through our work in the adult industry, so opening the doors for a conversation about it wasn't difficult at all. We talked for a long time about the idea, and eventually we decided to take the leap, having decided it was something at least worth trying.In the last two years, we've made some amazing friends, had some awesome and less than stellar experiences, and strengthened our relationship o… Read how I did it…
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Well, it wasn’t exactly as we expected but now in a few weeks we’ll be the proud parents of our second child.
I guess there’s truth in the ‘just give up’ theory.
With the exception of a smallish lack of motivation, I’m not doing too bad. Some of it has to do with my needing to learn more about what I’m doing. So it’s a slow process but I think I’m getting there.

