TeteSagehen

I know it’s tempting, but picking your face is only going to make your acne worse. When you pop a zit, two show up to its funeral.

No two women are exactly the same, but keep these general things in mind:
- We appreciate attentiveness. Pay attention to little details and remember stuff she does and says. Then do something that shows that you recognize those details. You don’t have to spend a lot of money on a gift for a girl, it just needs to reflect what you know about her.
- Sometimes, we don’t know what we want. Other times, we’re very clear. Pay attention to how decisive she is about something. Let her lead the charge when she clearly wants to lead, and take the lead when she’s conflicted about what to do with her Saturday night.
- Listen and don’t offer advice. We don’t want you to fix things, we want you to listen, be sympathetic and tell us about a time when you felt the exact same way. Only give advice when asked for it. If you feel you must offer advice, at least ask, “is this one of those times when you want me to listen and not give you advice, or can I say something?”
- When you’re in a relationship, ask her, “what’s the most important thing that I don’t understand about you sexually?” And be prepared to respect her answers, even if they seem really critical of you.

Also, go see the Vagina Monologues. It really helps and it’s funnier, sexier and more entertaining that the title would normally suggest to a man.

to find something you really enjoy doing. Think outside the box. Try rock climbing, martial arts, kayaking, belly dancing, etc. You don’t have to go and be mindlessly bored at the gym.