True love is something you can never label or define. And it never fades—it can withstand time, space, & everything in between. Sometimes, you can’t really understand it, but when it hits you, you’ll know it.
TheEvenstar's Life List
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1. Create a Photography Portfolio
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2. Develop a beauty/skin care routine
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3. Gain more confidence
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4. Feng shui my home & office
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5. Decorate my home
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6. Get a new wardrobe
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7. Beat all my video games
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8. Organize my life
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9. Learn Japanese
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10. Build a snowman
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11. Read a classic
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12. Stop eating fast food
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13. Visit Japan
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14. Plant a vegetable garden
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15. Learn to play the koto
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16. Meditate 2x daily
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17. Practice mindfulness in my daily life
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18. Write a book
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19. Join a sangha
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20. Practice Yoga
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21. Make a new friend
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22. Develop and maintain a healthy diet
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23. Eliminate negative people from my life
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24. Plant a tree
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25. Get a puppy
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How I did it: We wrote our own ceremony & just planned things out to fit our relationship. I wore a white dress & he wore a black & white tux -- but it was a very intimate & personal ceremony. The reception was a blast & we shared our special day with 200 of our closest family & friends. Read how I did it…
There’s something very hauntingly beautiful about the sound of a koto. I’d love to learn to play. The first step, is to actually purchase a koto. That’s something I’ll have to look into.
I feel that this is a big enough event to write about even though I got my first tattoo(s) before I joined here. I remember being a teenager & wanting my first tattoo when I was in high school. And my mother said what most mothers say, “Wait until you’re 18.”
I’m sure at one point, I was irritated by this. But now, I’m glad she didn’t give in. When I turned 18, I didn’t run off & get a tattoo. It wasn’t that I didn’t want one anymore, I just ‘didn’t get around to it’. Finally, a couple of months before my 21st birthday, my mom called me & told me she had the perfect idea of what we could do on our birthdays (hers is 3 days before mine). She wanted us to get our first tattoos together. So we did on 8.25.2007, which was also my birthday. We both got a shamrock on our ankle. It was special, but I also felt that I was ready to get not only a tattoo symbolizing my relationship with my mother, but one symbolizing myself & my own life as an individual.
So that day, I submitted my virginal skin to the needle & was inked twice. I got the shamrock on my ankle to symbolize my relationship with my mother & our heritage. And I also got a butterfly on my wrist to symbolize death, change, & most of all—rebirth.
