I want to educate myself on the fundamentals of fashion (matching and contrasting colors, if nothing more), where fashion is right now, and then start dressing uniquely. It isn’t about impressing others, it’s about impressing myself, and frankly, I feel geeky, uninteresting, and boring from a visual perspective, and I don’t think how I dress shows who I am or how I feel at all. I actually wanted to do this before the new college semester started up, but blah. Any websites I can check out?
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wish there were free fashion consultants...
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4 years ago
I’ve done, but nothing’s escaped my pen recently. I want that spark to appear again.
I’ve always had horrible problems with relating to others and have always feel like an outsider, that others wouldn’t understand me, as well. Because of this I rarely go out and never approach or even meet the eyes of strangers (whether they’re attractive girls, or not), am uncomfortable in public, and probably appear entirely uninterested when I do want to meet people and live life more. Part of me feels I’ve been dragging my feet because I’m used to this life, used to feeling like an observer, and that I’m safe here, disconnected. How to change?
