I want to educate myself on the fundamentals of fashion (matching and contrasting colors, if nothing more), where fashion is right now, and then start dressing uniquely. It isn’t about impressing others, it’s about impressing myself, and frankly, I feel geeky, uninteresting, and boring from a visual perspective, and I don’t think how I dress shows who I am or how I feel at all. I actually wanted to do this before the new college semester started up, but blah. Any websites I can check out?
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3. be less anxious
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4. be more social
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5. be good to myself
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6. love myself
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7. create a unique wardrobe
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8. Eradicate all nuclear weapons
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9. learn to draw
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10. draw better
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11. watch more anime
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12. Improve my Karma.
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13. beat social anxiety
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14. get rid of my addictions
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15. watch Wal-Mart burn to the ground
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16. Finish what I start
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17. Spread firefox
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18. Dedicate more time to my practice of Buddhism
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19. Learn Japanese
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20. Learn to play the piano
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21. learn guitar
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22. have a long term relationship
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23. take more walks
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24. wake up next to someone I love
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25. wage peace
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26. Go to a Radiohead concert
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27. learn to read music
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28. make friends
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29. dress the way I wish I dressed every day
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30. find other fellows quirkyalones on 43things
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31. witness the end of IE
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32. go after what I want
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I’ve always had horrible problems with relating to others and have always feel like an outsider, that others wouldn’t understand me, as well. Because of this I rarely go out and never approach or even meet the eyes of strangers (whether they’re attractive girls, or not), am uncomfortable in public, and probably appear entirely uninterested when I do want to meet people and live life more. Part of me feels I’ve been dragging my feet because I’m used to this life, used to feeling like an observer, and that I’m safe here, disconnected. How to change?
