I'm doing 29 things
6 years ago, I cheated on my husband. Amist the enormous and overwelming mixture of emotions about breaking up and dealing with family reactions, I never really dealt with what I had done and my relationship with him, and its eventual breakdown. last year, 5 years after the event, I started counselling and managed to deal with the guilt and remorse i felt for what happened. As a result i wrote and sent a letter of aplogy to him. I didn’t do it to get a response from him. I did it to say sorry for what happened. I don’t even know if he recieved the letter, but knowing that I have dealt with my feelings and that I have made an effort to let him know means that I am now at peace with myself. And I genuinely hope he is leading a happy and healthy life.
TheyCallMeLegs's Life List
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1. be debt free
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2. Save money
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3. buy a house
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4. travel the world
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5. expand my vocabulary
2,538 people -
6. learn to ride a motor bike
10 people -
7. learn a new language
1,589 people -
8. have witty intellectual conversations on a daily basis
36 people -
9. give birth
148 people -
10. Practice yoga regularly
687 people -
11. live in a foreign country
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12. decide what the hell i want to do with the rest of my life
37 people -
13. Kiss in the rain
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14. learn to play the piano
7,145 people -
15. get another tattoo
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16. Fall Ridiculously and Wrecklessly, head-over-heels in Love
394 people -
17. live for one day without looking at a clock or knowing what time it is
19 people -
18. read all the books i own
1,092 people -
19. find my dream job
373 people -
20. be fearless
517 people -
21. Make new friends
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22. go camping more
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23. Ride a horse bareback on a beach.
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24. get married again
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25. live passionatley
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26. improve my general knowledge
84 people -
27. take a road trip
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28. Learn a martial art
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29. learn to salsa
1,322 people
Recent entries
in my own way
15 months ago
Getting There
17 months ago
I had counselling last year for about 6 months. Really discovered issues that I didn’t even realise were there. Managed to solve one particular issue, which was the trigger to getting counselling int he first place. Going back again this month. Having the courage to go in the first place was the best thing I have ever done for myself.
Good News!!!!!!
2 years ago
Today is the day that I walked with my head held high and went through the front door of my bank, to pay in all the cash I have saved from the money I have made from my second job….... and paid off my entire overdraft!!!!!!!!! What an amazing feeling!
Now just my last and biggest debt to go …. ‘the’ loan!
