Tishku is planting flowers today!




I'm doing 14 things
 
Recent entries
Help My 43T Friends acheive their Goals
What a noble and caring goal!

While I think this is a noble effort, I am afriad I cannot support this goal if it becomes financial. I donate annually to several charitable organizations that I have researched and feel confident distribute the funds in a productive way.

Sadly, we live in a world where honesty is very objective. I would like to explain it in my own words, but Wikipedia did such a good job with it, I’ll just let you read that version:

Quality of honesty applies to all behaviors. One cannot refuse to consider factual information, for example, in an unbiased manner and still claim that one’s knowledge, belief, or position is an attempt to be truthful. Such a belief is clearly a product of one’s desires and simply has nothing to do with the human ability to know. Basing one’s positions on what one wants — rather than unbiased evidence gathering — is dishonest even when good intentions can be cited — after all even villains could cite good intentions and intended glory for a select group of people. Clearly then, an unbiased approach to the truth is a requirement of honesty.

Because intentions are closely related to fairness and certainly affect the degree of honesty/dishonesty, there is a wide spread confusion about honesty. There is also a general belief that we always realize when we are dishonest. However, self-perception of our morals is non-static. It’s often at the moment we refuse to consider other perspectives that there is a clear indication we are not really interested in the truth and therefore dishonest.

Socrates had much to say about truth, honesty and morality, and explained that if people really understood that their behavior was wrong — then they simply wouldn’t choose it. Furthermore, the more dishonest someone is, the less likely they are to understand honesty and characterize their behavior as wrong. Unfortunately, honesty and morality have been marginalized to specific lists of behaviors that change over time(like fashion).

The understanding that honesty requires an unbiased approach to the truth and to evidence gathering at all times, collides with ideologies of all types. This would explain why honesty, although talked about a lot—has failed to become a cultural norm.

Ideologies and idealism inherently exaggerate and suppress evidence in order to support their perspectives. They essentially tell us that their way is the only right way to view the world. This erodes the practice and understanding of honesty and creates ongoing conflicts in all human relationships.

Blessings and Good Luck With This Goal



Daily: Reflect on 5 things for which I'm grateful. (read all 33 entries…)
Grateful for....

....going to see a completely ridiculous, stupid & funny movie, “Balls of Fury”....if only to see Christopher Walken.

...movie theatre popcorn.

...heavy rain.

...nice neighbors.

...not carrying my cell phone with me.



Daily: Reflect on 5 accomplishments.
5 Accompishments

1. Ran 4 miles, even when I didn’t want to run at all.

2. Grocery shopped and left the store with all whole food, yay!

3. Cook a delicious dinner.

4. Planted a beautiful pot of red flowers.

5. Wrestled on the floor with my two daughters.



See all entries ...


 

I want to:
43 Things Login