I’m trying to make a goal list. I have been running into a problem. All of my goals are material and that doesn’t make me happy. Some, if met would help with stress , but thats even short lived. I’m going to try this, and see how it goes…
YOu can Call me Lady V's Life List
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1. apply to universities
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2. expand my vocabulary
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3. get up earlier to make the most of the day, and my life
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4. Fall and get BAck Up!
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5. Pay My Family Debts
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6. give my brother all the money i owe him...
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7. Earn enough to get my brother back the money I owe him
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8. Let GO and Let Flo
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9. Efficiently Take My own Life path
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10. identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money)
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11. My Taíno Culture paid homage to our ancestors believing that they became protective spirits, also called zemís, upon death.
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12. Locate Family in Puerto Rico
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13. Create a Web Portfolio
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14. keep a live plant
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15. Keep my life planned out two years at a time!
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16. learn to say good-bye
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17. love my mother more
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18. focus
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19. Make new international friends
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20. Find Truth
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21. Go someplace very, very dark and look at the stars all night
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22. inform myself about how to deal with pressure
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23. Be a GearHead
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24. touch a pyramid
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25. Learn to be happy with what I have
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26. trust my abilities
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27. StoP ProcrastinatING ...Like I'm going to Live 4ever
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28. stop losing things
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29. read as many books as possible, starting with all the books I own but haven't read
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Man I lost all my material things that meant most. My MAc BOOK pro, a month old, nikon d 70 and four lenses, photo portfolio, journals of writings from age eight to 21, clothes new and old, my favorite BCBG’s, pictures of my father and I before he died, MY MUSIC ahhh My Music and more I’m sure.
But what I learned is very simply the more you work to get these arbitrary things the more you appreciate your life. Because of the people you have to meet, places you have to go, and thing you have to do get them back, just doing so will build an internal confidence to survive. However is takes a large amount of ambition, self-love and honesty, to keep it up…
although I work at the midnight shift i make myself guilty every morning because i wake up so late. A 11 a.m. half the day is already gone!
