I'm doing 43 things
I marked it not worth it
18 months ago
... because there is the reason, internally, why we ourself put us down there on the floor. If anything, it will pass by itself. You cannot forcefully heal yourself from doormatism.
Jurate S.'s Life List
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1. Be able to recognise emotional cruelty and never let anyone cruel into my life again
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2. Give my heart to another big-hearted, kind and nurturing person, and never have to look for bits of loving again
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3. find strength in solitude
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4. Trust what I know
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5. Get a grip of myself
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6. Say No (each and every time!) to things I do not want to be part of my life
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7. settle in a permanent location
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8. see the northern lights
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9. dance quickstep with a pro one evening per month, until my old days
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10. add a professional degree to my CV
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11. build a home
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12. grow a garden
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13. sew a splendid evening dress myself
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14. Synch the way I reason, anticipate, feel, and act with my loved ones
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15. Get a King Charles Cavalier Spaniel (or just a spaniel)
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16. own pearl earrings
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17. admit vulnerabilities
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18. write one personal letter (on real paper - not in email) each week
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19. live simply
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20. learn to ask for a favor
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21. have a mountaineering vacation every year
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22. increase my typing speed
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23. read at least 50 pages a day (not work-related literature)
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24. Finish my PhD
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25. do cutwork embroidery
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26. paint on silk
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27. be patient and always know that there will be tomorrow
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28. be elegant and sophisticated
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29. learn how to make my own soap and candles
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30. join a book circle
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31. be more relaxed about my expenses
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32. not to get upset about gaming and manipulative people
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33. go to culinary school
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34. choose more actively, and more often, and limit my flexible space
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35. maintain my priorities and never be cynical about them
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36. Stop wanting attention
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37. bury treasure and map it
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38. equalize power relationships both in my professional and personal endeavors
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39. stay healthy
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40. be successful in carrying out my social roles, whatever they are and might be in the future
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41. start ladies' movement for bringing chivalry to our everyday lives!
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42. Learn to play the piano
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43. Dance all night in Stockholm before leaving Sweden
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Recent entries
I am not a doormat
2 years ago
Whether make “them” stop taking me for granted, or go less uptight with my responsibilities myself, embrace the “casual” state of affairs.
There is no promise in relationships
2 years ago
like there is no place for “pride”, there is no possible way to make your loved one act in your interest whenever love fades. I will know later than sooner, in case.
