...I’ve been tempted to whine, but I’ve kept my mouth shut instead. It left a hole in the air, but it left that hole open for something more positive.
VeloGirl08's Life List
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1. learn to be at peace with myself
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2. stop comparing myself to other people
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3. be more confident
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4. relax more
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5. rebuild my credit
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6. let things go
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7. stop apologizing all the time
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8. be less selfish
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9. complain less
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10. think less and do more
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11. be more friendly
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12. worry less
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13. be less sensitive
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14. have an opinion
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15. be more honest (with myself and others)
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16. stop depending on others for my happiness
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17. stick to a budget
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18. be more generous
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19. make peace with my sister's impending engagement
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20. write regularly
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21. decide on a food site name and start it
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22. save money for fun stuff and meaningful gifts
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23. save money so I can build up my road bike
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24. find a full time job in publishing within 6 months to a year
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25. get organized
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26. sell 3 freelance pieces within 6 months to a year
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27. learn discipline when it comes to cycling
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28. fall in love and get married within the next year
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29. keep biking through the winter
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30. commute to work by bicycle (which entails getting up really early)
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31. get published in The New Yorker
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32. find a job in an area I want to live in where I can pursue my athletic goals
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33. focus
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34. get over my fear of rejection
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The road bike my friend is lending me won’t be available this week- have to wait one more week… grrrr… (can’t afford the 2 tanks of gas to drive up to her house and back to fetch it).
—Not necessarily her fault and she’s not doing it to spite me. Scheduling mix-up and she can’t come down. C’est la vie.
The pool is closed this week.
—It’s opening was TBA, and they decided CLOSED. It’s open for one last weekend. I just need to find some other way to exercise. Zen breaths.
Obnoxious ex-bf is delaying sending the bike frame. I’m annoyed because he’s relying on his friend R., who doesn’t follow through on things. Lately, though, R. has been reliable. Ex does not tell me this, so I, thinking R. is a feckless twit, get annoyed. Ex calls me insane. After prodding he admits that R. is not so bad, which makes me mad because I would not have been so angry if I’d known.
Yoga time!
defensive sometimes! Geez, need to work on that and laugh at myself a little more.
