Zijue

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I'm doing 36 things
 

Zijue's Life List

  1. 1. 43Things Secret Santa
    7 team members . 6 entries . 6 cheers
    18 people
  2. 2. Do a 2009 holiday card exchange with my 43Things friends
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    53 people
  3. 3. lead a simpler but more satisfying life
    3 entries . 58 cheers
    1 person
  4. 4. learn to let go
    6 entries . 52 cheers
    564 people
  5. 5. develop a vocabulary of 100 words in Chinese
    5 entries . 43 cheers
    1 person
  6. 6. have penfriends all over the world
    4 entries . 43 cheers
    3 people
  7. 7. write a book
    4 entries . 39 cheers
    26,116 people
  8. 8. practise Buddhism
    12 entries . 37 cheers
    4 people
  9. 9. keep in touch with people who are important to me
    29 cheers
    49 people
  10. 10. get a tattoo
    5 entries . 28 cheers
    20,305 people
  11. 11. eat healthily
    3 entries . 27 cheers
    255 people
  12. 12. Beat my depression
    26 cheers
    1,686 people
  13. 13. get outdoors more
    26 cheers
    30 people
  14. 14. Create the life I want to live
    21 cheers
    87 people
  15. 15. Stop caring what other people think of me
    20 cheers
    3,977 people
  16. 16. learn how to handle conflict without resorting to irrational, illogical, emotional outbursts
    18 cheers
    1 person
  17. 17. Make new friends and be a good friend to the ones I have
    17 cheers
    6 people
  18. 18. Do NaNoWriMo
    4 entries . 16 cheers
    606 people
  19. 19. have a tattoo designed for me
    2 entries . 16 cheers
    3 people
  20. 20. Progress, Not Perfection
    14 cheers
    8 people
  21. 21. watch 100 of the IMDB Top 250
    3 entries . 11 cheers
    2 people
  22. 22. be more forgiving
    10 cheers
    231 people
  23. 23. meditate daily
    2010 resolution . 10 cheers
    3,984 people
  24. 24. apply the 10-minute rule to housework
    9 cheers
    1 person
  25. 25. improve my fitness
    2 entries . 8 cheers
    92 people
  26. 26. don't take things personally
    7 cheers
    33 people
  27. 27. lose weight
    7 cheers
    36,388 people
  28. 28. publish fiction on my website
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    1 person
  29. 29. update my mini-43T challenge book daily
    2 entries . 6 cheers
    1 person
  30. 30. Become a Polyglot
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    150 people
  31. 31. Find out who is subscribed to me.
    2 entries . 5 cheers
    49 people
  32. 32. improve my appearance
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    245 people
  33. 33. Formally take refuge
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    2 people
  34. 34. write 43Things entries in foreign languages
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    1 person
  35. 35. Greek: Beginner's level
    1 cheer
    1 person
  36. 36. ~* Have my journal travel among my 43T friends *~
    4 people

How I did it
How to see watchmen
It took me
2 months
It made me
Thrilled!


How to get 100 people to 'sign' my petition for emiliakaarina to bring the green hair back :)
It took me
10 months
It made me


Recent entries
Give 10 KIVA loans (read all 3 entries…)
Break 4 hours ago

I’m moving this to my given up list, as I’m not in a good financial position to continue this in the short term. I plan on picking it up a little way into the New Year, when I can recover from Christmas and get some debt repayments behind me.



write 43Things entries in foreign languages
Wunschzettel 19 hours ago

Jetzt habe ich einen Wunschzettel auf Amazon.de! :) Ich habe so viele schoene Buecher gefunden, und ich habe viele Ideen zum Weihnachten :)



learn to let go (read all 6 entries…)
A lifetime to master... 1 day ago

I can imagine that this goal will still be on my list in years to come, but I feel that I have managed to do this on occasion. My sister and I had a fall-out last Christmas, which led to us not talking to each other for 10 months. We have since started talking again, and I realised that the anger that I felt so strongly last year had been dissipating and being replaced with a feeling of sadness that despite caring very much for each other, we had to let something that didn’t need to be there get in the way.

Anger wasn’t going to make her change, any more than it was going to make me change. Eventually, I didn’t care who was right and wrong; I just thought it was sad that we didn’t talk. I now feel that anger would be causing more damage than it’s worth, if we hadn’t made up our differences and moved on. I’m going to see my sister this Christmas, and I have a positive feeling that it’s not going to be a repeat of last year. So, I’m pleased I’ve done a little letting go this year.

There’s plenty more to do though! :)



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