_Belle_

is feeling much better now! I'm divorced! yay



I'm doing 38 things
 

_Belle_'s Life List

  1. 1. never tolerate abuse of any kind. ever.
    2 entries . 25 cheers
    1 person
  2. 2. Reflect on 5 things for which I'm grateful, hopefully everyday
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    1 person
  3. 3. Give myself a treat as often as I can
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    1 person
  4. 4. find at least one thing each day that makes me happy and record it everyday for a year
    11 entries . 5 cheers
    1,343 people
  5. 5. Remeber and write down all the things my mother taught/told me
    4 entries . 3 cheers
    1 person
  6. 6. Write down the things I have discovered to be pretty certain in this life - (for me)
    3 entries . 4 cheers
    1 person
  7. 7. Clean!
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    97 people
  8. 8. Get organized!
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    6,083 people
  9. 9. list 50 women little girls should admire instead of symbols of stupidity and weakness
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    124 people
  10. 10. Make a list of 43 things I know very little about, & then learn at least 3 things about each of them
    3 entries . 1 cheer
    128 people
  11. 11. Weed the garden
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    18 people
  12. 12. Get a Harp and learn to play it
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    2 people
  13. 13. Have a home Library!
    3 entries . 4 cheers
    27 people
  14. 14. Rehab my kitchen
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    2 people
  15. 15. Be financially independent
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    1,554 people
  16. 16. Find a mentor
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    152 people
  17. 17. Enjoy 2008 by giving myself at least one new (and hopfully fullfilling) experience every month
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    1 person
  18. 18. Get out more
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    700 people
  19. 19. Give my dogs a fenced in yard
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    1 person
  20. 20. stop smoking
    7 cheers
    3,049 people
  21. 21. try fencing
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    32 people
  22. 22. Get a eye exam and go to the dentist
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    1 person
  23. 23. Hug my guinea pigs every day
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    1 person
  24. 24. Be a resource for victims of domestic violence
    2 entries . 5 cheers
    2 people
  25. 25. paint a picture to hang on a wall
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    3 people
  26. 26. Learn to use power tools and not be afraid of them
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    2 people
  27. 27. Share 43 of my favorite websites
    1 entry
    32 people
  28. 28. fire a gun in a shooting range
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    132 people
  29. 29. Buy a bunch of old chipped plates, and break them to release frustration and residual anger
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    1 person
  30. 30. Mute the commercials
    1 person
  31. 31. Write down my treasured memories so I don't forget them.
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    1 person
  32. 32. develop my spirituality
    2 entries . 2 cheers
    101 people
  33. 33. Write a book and donate the proceeds to the abused, neglected, and abandoned children of the world
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    1 person
  34. 34. Share interesting things I find on the internet with my 43 things friends....
    1 entry
    1 person
  35. 35. get my sexy back
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    3 people
  36. 36. Post random thoughts, observations, and events of the day...
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    19 people
  37. 37. Make a "Book of Possibilities"
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    54 people
  38. 38. Howl with my dogs more often
    1 entry
    1 person
Recent entries
have a home library (read all 3 entries…)
books books and more books 13 months ago

I love love love books… I’ve been building my library by adding lots of new material. It’s so exciting.



Howl with my dogs more often
Untitled 13 months ago

My dogs react to sirens by howling… It’s fun to howl with them. They’re always a little surprised, but they seem to like it! It’s a fun way to bond with them.



never tolerate abuse of any kind. ever. (read all 2 entries…)
Dreams! 13 months ago

I’ve been having a lot of dreams related to this topic lately. They’ve been teaching me to de-sensitize my emotional “reactive” part when it comes to other’s bad behavior towards me. The dreams have shown me I don’t have to “re-act”... but use emotional restraint and an emotionally “centered” response, or no response at all.. not to internalize.



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