Lani

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I'm doing 34 things
 

Lani's Life List

  1. 1. stop being so hard on myself
    3 entries . 42 cheers
    142 people
  2. 2. Live consciously and conscientiously
    1 entry . 14 cheers
    2 people
  3. 3. outline a projected attainable identity
    8 entries . 8 cheers
    3 people
  4. 4. revalue love over lust in all my interests
    3 entries . 13 cheers
    1 person
  5. 5. stop buying things i dont need.
    7 entries . 40 cheers
    293 people
  6. 6. become financially independent and stable
    7 entries . 29 cheers
    6 people
  7. 7. write for myself--more and more often
    8 entries . 31 cheers
    9 people
  8. 8. become the reader I pretend I am
    1 entry . 17 cheers
    1 person
  9. 9. find what it is that would make me professionally happy
    21 entries . 18 cheers
    1 person
  10. 10. smile at attractive strangers
    5 entries . 16 cheers
    3 people
  11. 11. be better to my body
    25 entries . 20 cheers
    7 people
  12. 12. let my hair grow unhindered
    4 entries . 11 cheers
    1 person
  13. 13. regularly pluck my eyebrows and shave my legs
    3 entries . 5 cheers
    1 person
  14. 14. Establish a morning ritual
    2 entries . 7 cheers
    2 people
  15. 15. have a regular sleep pattern
    6 entries . 21 cheers
    39 people
  16. 16. have more clarity
    10 entries . 13 cheers
    2 people
  17. 17. create a world in which I can feel at home
    8 entries . 16 cheers
    1 person
  18. 18. become an legitimate essayist
    5 entries . 13 cheers
    5 people
  19. 19. Learn to cook
    17 entries . 16 cheers
    7,829 people
  20. 20. start playing music again in earnest
    2 entries . 22 cheers
    4 people
  21. 21. spend more time outside
    3 entries . 25 cheers
    674 people
  22. 22. establish a real online presence
    4 entries . 9 cheers
    1 person
  23. 23. revisit my beloved Trafalgar
    3 entries . 8 cheers
    2 people
  24. 24. make my life worth the beautiful struggle, make it a good story
    8 entries . 20 cheers
    3 people
  25. 25. read Proust's In Search of Lost Time
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    40 people
  26. 26. move to madison
    1 entry
    7 people
  27. 27. stop letting dirty dishes accumulate in my bedroom for longer than 24 hours
    1 entry
    1 person
  28. 28. write about books without being made to
    1 person
  29. 29. establish and adopt a weekly routine
    1 person
  30. 30. thoroughly research and follow a new career path
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    1 person
  31. 31. spend time authentically
    1 cheer
    1 person
  32. 32. write The Saddest Banana Ever
    2 entries . 2 cheers
    1 person
  33. 33. meet fabulous new people
    1 entry
    2 people
  34. 34. become fluent in spanish
    2 entries . 6 cheers
    1,847 people
Recent entries
find what it is that would make me professionally happy (read all 21 entries…)
Untitled 2 months ago

...’elp.



stop buying things i dont need. (read all 7 entries…)
Untitled 2 months ago

Did I positively need those two beautiful pair of earrings, on sale for 25% off, the one pair two hues of blue and the other, an intense combination of my favorite limey green and deep turquoise?

In a word, no. However, they’re beautiful and on sale and well, I’m quite happy with them.

Now, that said, I have to get out of here and in order to do that, two things need to happen: I need to find a new job and I need to save enough money to sustain myself for a little while and to afford another move.

So…things to stop buying…I need to cut down on the coffee expenditures, also muffins. Too many lunches out, too many groceries wasted. I can use Emily’s extra umbrella until I can buy one; I can wear the shoes I have until my adorable lime flats go on sale; I can shop more smartly for the things I really do need…it’s gametime now, for a little while.

Cross your fingers, though, that I find something, please?



have more clarity (read all 10 entries…)
Untitled 3 months ago

...in fact, I have probably never had less clarity. =/

I know I’m putting too much faith in the power of a clean shirt, but Opening Day is tomorrow. April is now official and while it may be the cruelest month, it’s also the month that signifies the end of the year for me. I’ve lived too long by a semester calendar, I realize, but as such, I’ve also taken the warming months to signal the end of something and the beginning of something much calmer.

May I remember this more often.



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