Amazingkae

is going to be the shadow of her former self for Halloween.



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Amazingkae's Life List

  1. 1. Find my heart.
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    6 people
  2. 2. Listen to my inner voice and trust when my spider senses are tingling.
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  3. 3. Don't lose faith; keep athiests and skeptical people who don't believe in metababble away from me.
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  4. 4. Stop caring about people who don't care about me; make my happiness in life a priority (without feeling guilty for fostering my own version of healthy self esteem).
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  5. 5. Practice Pronoia: Train my senses and intellect to perceive the fact that life always gives me exactly what I need (exactly when I need it most) because the universe is conspiring to help me.
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  6. 6. Drink more Lemonade, Sweet Tea, and Mint Juleps while relaxing on the porch.
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  7. 7. Each morning, set my intentions for the day... then mindfully follow through with completing related goals and tasks to the best of my ability.
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  8. 8. Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants. Everything Tasty. All gluten-free.
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  9. 9. Be more like Einstein (out of clutter, find simplicity).
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    1 person
  10. 10. Spend a few quiet months overseas (once I don't have to worry anymore about being too far away from friends and family).
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  11. 11. Be All My Fortune Cookie Says I Can Be.
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  12. 12. Look back on accomplishments from the past decade (start to finish), assess where I am in this moment, and step confidently forward into the next stages of my life plan for 2013.
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  13. 13. Complete 3000 truly memorable and meaningful goals listed on 43things.
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  14. 14. Find a nice set of soup cups that are "new to me" to replace my old set of vintage ones.
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  15. 15. Get a new covered butter dish; if I cant find one that is vintage or antique that I like, cough up the money for the boring one that matches my everyday china pattern.
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  16. 16. Remodel the closet in the mud room to create double hanging space for coats and things.
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  17. 17. Leave flowers on the grave of a stranger.
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  18. 18. Empty the storage trailer and garage, sell items I have not used or needed for more than 3 years at auction or sell online -- give away all leftover items to charity.
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  19. 19. Donate clothes and shoes I do not wear to the local battered womens shelter -- boxed kids clothes and houseware items, too!
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  20. 20. Sort through my boxes of books; pull out the classics, esoteric, and philosophy books to keep for the library; sell the rest or donate to pet helpers consignment.
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  21. 21. Re-paint any odd little chests, end tables, and doo-dahs we have hidden around in bright colors or white shabby chic.
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  22. 22. Buy a normal, every-day-useful hybrid car or SUV to use as a daily driver... something good to the environment but still economically pragmatic, a fiscally conservative purchase opportunity, and absolutely PEPPY.
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  23. 23. Photodocument more tombs and headstones in graveyards and do historical research on the people's life stories as a way to preserve their memory.
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    1 person
  24. 24. Travel the world's finest art galleries and museums with my family regularly.
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  25. 25. Stay at the Waldorf-Astoria.
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  26. 26. Write a novel of epic proportions that even Dante himself would endorse and admire then have the courage to publish it before I'm dead so I can enjoy its success while I am still alive.
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    1 person
  27. 27. Develop really great wrinkles and laugh lines as I grow old (and be able to remember the stories behind each one of them).
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  28. 28. Explore the secrets of becoming a wildly disciplined, fiercely tender, ironically sincere, scrupulously curious, aggressively sensitive, blasphemously reverent, lyrically logical, lustfully compassionate Master of Rowdy Bliss.
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  29. 29. Reconcile my INTP nature with my occasional need to E.
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  30. 30. Develop a superpower that allows me to cull more easily then "clean house" (literally and figuratively speaking).
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  31. 31. Figure it out. Figure it all out.
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  32. 32. As a future goal, plan to spend at least a few months of my life studying or writing in Hawaii--and go surfing or body boarding there (even if I'm 90, I'm still going, seriously).
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  33. 33. Actively research, strategize, and write more chapters for my novel or regional history pieces.
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  34. 34. Be patient enough to train my "voice to text" typing program to understand my Southern drawl so it becomes a useful tool that helps me write more (so normal sentences and paragraphs don't come out looking more like beat poetry than academic writing).
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  35. 35. Be empathetic, sympathetic, and genuinely caring but don't let my kind nature be my Achilles heel (a weakness that others can exploit to use or damage me).
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  36. 36. Declutter my home, downsize my life's dramas, and organize my thinking so I can be more productive and effective with grace and ease.
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  37. 37. Let go of my attachment to people, places, and things that no longer serve my higest and greatest good.
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  38. 38. Figure out a way to support myself and my family financially without ever needing to worry about over-extending myself physically or emotionally.
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  39. 39. Don't let my next move overwhelm me.
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  40. 40. Engage in compassionate acts of good will and charity regularly without falling into the trap of martyrdom or co-dependency.
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How I did it
How to remember to pick up extra indoor outdoor pillows for the lanai furniture the next time I run to Costco.
It took me
120 days
It made me
feel crafty.


How to figure out if I want to live full time in one place or split my time between two (or three or four) places in my immediate future.
It took me
100 days
It made me
finally feel at home


How to get my hair cut shorter
It took me
1 day
It made me
feel summer-ready!


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Recent entries
Train swamp monster puppy to be a service dog (or at least get him to walk through our neighborhood without pulling on a leash).
Puppy Love

Swamp monster puppy is officially a dog now. He’s a year old, twice the size he was supposed to be already, and has totally made himself part of the family.

As it turns out, he’s more of a Frisbee player than walker. He loves the dog park, swimming, and playing at the beach—and basically, has turned out to be one of the sweetest companion animals anyone could ever meet. Granted, he still does pup-tastic things [like trying to play chase with squirrels, neighborhood cats, and is forever driving our own kitty nuts trying to play conga line with his nose pushing her along by her butt whenever she comes downstairs to hang out with me (which of course drives her crazy)], but other than silly stuff like that, he’s turned out to be a gentleman really.

Old tricks to him already are sit, high five, hit the dirt, floor, crawl, pick it up, bring it to mommy, bring it to daddy, bring it to your boy, up, down, go get it, ringing one set of bells when he has to go out, ringing a different set of bells when he simply wants to go lay on the porch, and “open the door” for himself or whoever needs assistance entering or leaving.

New tricks he’s working on are mostly related to identifying different objects, go, stay, right here, learning to pick out his own toys at the pet store, twirl, and not jumping out of the car or truck just because a door is open (for safety when traveling).

I also taught him to ask for help when he needs it by using a specific bark. My old dog who I miss dearly was not as bright as this one but he was super loyal and interactive with me. He used to say “hello” (howlro) and “I love you” (ri rouff arou) as well as sing with me… so teaching this pup to use his voice tones to communicate [rather than simple barking] is something we’re already starting.

And, of course, he’s even managed to win the heart of his “big sister” (our little dog who is a sixth the size of him). He knows that when it comes to discipline and manners that she rules the roost and really is the queen – and if he’s misbehaving or playing too rough in any way, she schools him to remediate his behavior very quickly or tattles on him to me. Fortunately for him, he listens without arguing. [Otherwise, most of his life would be spent under the coffee table – where she herds him then corrals him like she’s a little prison guard or sheep dog if and when he even thinks about playing too rowdy.]

As for the leash thing, wearing the leash is something we need to practice more (because for the most part he’s off leash but learning voice commands and responding to hand signals daily).

I’d like him to learn more helpful things like picking any object up from the floor that we point to (rather than simply picking up and handing me his toys and playthings on command), but all in all as a companion animal who loves to be right where the people are 24/7, he’s turned out pretty amazing.

Happy Birthday, Puppy! Hopefully, by the time he’s two or three we can officially have him registered as a companion animal so we can bring him more places with us as a service doggie.



Make sure the grass is always greener on my side of the fence.
Get the yard ready for April Showers

Keeping the grass really lush and green has always been a pet project of my family. Getting the yard ready for summer is always a chore but nothing is more time consuming than getting new grass to grow. This year, the goal was to have the yard weeded, weed and feed down, lymed, and the lawn re-seeded before April 1st. Because it takes a great deal of water to get new grass seed to grow in places that are thin where we play with our dogs and along high traffic areas, getting the seed down and rooting early with the help of Mother Nature’s Spring showers should help keep our summer watering bill down. Once roots are established for the new seed, our lawn is drought resistant and the lyme keeps it looking vibrant throughout the summer months even when the neighbors grass begins to look dull. Well seeded, our lawn feels like cool carpet to walk on barefoot—making having it kept nice for recreational purposes one of things I look forward to enjoying most during the hot summer months.



Get annuals and bulbs planted in the large outdoor patio containers in time for everything to come up and greet the Summer sun.
Letting everything in my yard go to pot

This year, the plan for new garden plants is to put most of them in pots. Because we’re not 100% sure how we want to remodel the landscaping in the coming year(s), I am focusing on getting healthy plants started in containers. Because we can move them around and reposition them outside, it will give us the flexibility to decide what we want where. Adding annuals to the mix will keep patio containers vibrant throughout the warmer months and if it does get cold this winter we can bring more delicate or tropical plants inside the garage so they can continue to live.



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