Moving furniture and redecorating is always cathartic. This time, my goal was to look at my home differently and think about the space in a new way. This time, I actually did far more than I thought – the dining area is now a formal living room, the formal living room is now a non-traditional cozy area to have a meal, curl up and read, or play games by the fireplace, the den is the new comfy area to watch TV, and the great room on the ground floor is being redecorated now using the black rug (making the space more formal but unexpectedly working perfectly). Granted, we had to get a few new pieces and move a few other to storage, but it’s all coming along beautifully. The best part? On an everyday basis, I am more able to enjoy my time in the new space – and we love the new furniture we picked up for the den. The only tricky part is figuring out how to handle dinner parties and entertaining large groups if we’re trying to serve sit down meals to more than 6 guests. Time to hunt for a new antique table with extra leaves! Otherwise, I’m calling dibbs on sitting at the kiddie table with the younger peeps and chilling out with the pups underneath my feet.
Amazingkae's Life List
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1. Be All My Fortune Cookie Says I Can Be.
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2. Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants. Everything Tasty.
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3. Complete 3000 truly memorable and meaningful goals listed on 43things.
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4. Add a second closet in the guest room; complete by or before November 10 so the room is ready for company before Thanksgiving.
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5. Remodel the closet in the foyer to create double hanging space.
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6. Remodel the closet in the mud room to create double hanging space.
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7. Get the little antique bed frame put together so we can use it in the guest room or buy another one to use for a while until we can find the missing siderails for ours.
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8. Find the big black urns hiding somewhere in my unpacked boxes; trust they arrived unbroken and safe.
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9. Find a set of matching antique mirrors (or similar frames) to replace the big modern mirrors in the master bathroom; relocate the current mirrors to new wall spaces post haste.
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10. Empty the storage trailer and garage, sell them at auction, or sell online -- give away all leftover items to charity.
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11. Break my emotional attachment to my antique round table and buy a formal dining room set that seats at least six or eight.
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12. Donate clothes and shoes I do not wear to the local battered womens shelter -- boxed kids clothes and houseware items, too!
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13. Sort through my boxes of books; pull out the classics, esoteric, and philosophy books to keep for the library; sell the rest or donate to pet helpers consignment.
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14. Get new bedroom furniture for the boy or help him decide how he wants to refinish what he's got.
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15. Re-paint any odd little chests, end tables, and doo-dahs we have hidden around in bright colors or white shabby chic.
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16. Add electrical sockets to the floor in THAT space so I can add floorlamps, have custom bookshelves built, and make it into my library.
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17. Train swamp monster puppy to be a service dog (or at least get him to walk through our neighborhood without pulling on a leash).
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18. Oh... get new patio furniture for sure -- and the palm trees and ferns I want to go with them..
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19. Drink more Lemonade, Sweet Tea, and Mint Juleps while relaxing on the porch.
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20. Be more like Einstein (out of clutter, find simplicity).
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21. Listen to my inner voice, trust when my spider senses are tingling, and invoke the laws of karmic attraction while paying attention to pronoia happening in everyday activity.
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24. Leave flowers on the grave of a stranger.
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25. Photodocument more tombs and headstones in graveyards and do historical research on the people's life stories as a way to preserve their memory.
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26. Actively research, strategize, and write more chapters for regional history pieces.
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27. Travel the world's finest art galleries and museums with my family regularly.
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28. Find my heart.
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29. Take a moment each day to visualize a peaceful world, nation, region, neighborhood, family, environment, and/or person for the benefit of myself and others.
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30. Stay at the Waldorf-Astoria.
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31. Write a novel of epic proportions that even Dante himself would endorse and admire.
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32. Develop really great wrinkles and laugh lines as I grow old (and be able to remember the stories behind each one of them).
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33. As a future goal, plan to spend at least a year of my life studying in Hawaii--and go surfing or body boarding (even if I'm 90, I'm still going, seriously).
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34. Retire overseas someday when I find the perfect place that suits me and I don't have to worry about being too far away from friends and family.
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How I did it: Deciding where I want to live is always a challenge. So far, every time I've decided to make a move it has taken me a year or more to find the right space and this time was no different. However, we finally have the right game plan for the next stages roughed in... commuting to the city every 6 weeks 6 months is a big comfy home in a sleepy little waterfront community in a beautiful wooded area where we can kick back, relax, and… Read how I did it…
How I did it: A few weeks ago I finally broke down and decided to get my hair cut shorter. Unsure about what I wanted, I had them take an inch off at a time. The longer I thought about it, the easier the decisions were; I ended up having seven inches cut off. I can't begin to tell you what a liberating feeling it was doing it... When I caught a glimpse of myself from the side in a mirror last week, I was pleased with what I saw but for a few long secon… Read how I did it…
How I did it: Shopped early. Set up a gift wrap station in the corner of the living room and kept it stocked and organized. Wrapped one or two presents at a time in advance as the days and weeks before Christmas rolled by... all in view of the TV so I would remember to do it when watching movies. Used a different paper for each person so it did not matter what was in the package (I could easily tell who it was for from the wrapping). Watched lots of Ch… Read how I did it…
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Okay, so I hate clothes shopping. But I love having good clothes even more. That’s why when I lost my favorite jeans into a sea of storage totes during a recent move, I decided that rather than waiting to unpack I needed to buy a few new pairs more.
Shopping online to buy clothes is one of my favorite ways to make my clothes more eco-friendly. By buying recycled clothing, I’m extending the useful life of manufactured items. I’m also saving myself time and conserving resources by not having to drive around hunting for jeans that fit right at a bunch of boring shopping malls and department stores.
Because good sellers take and list comprehensive clothing measurements and some brands almost always run true to size (whatever that size is), I can pretty much figure out exactly what will [and what won’t] fit. Lazy of me to cheat and get out of trying on a plethora of clothes that are not pre-tailored to fit my measurements? Perhaps… but I’ve been shopping online this way for years and I absolutely love doing it.
Finally, a table wine to go with steaks and heavy red sauce pasta dinners… full bodied, opens up well to breathe, and did not splinter my brain because I’m allergic. How nice was it to sit and sip wine with dinner like a normal person? I might buy out the Total Wine store of this winery vintage and version.





