...but that mess is my gripe.
That was a horrible attempt at a Beastie Boys allusion. Forgive me.
Yes, my craft room is a mess. Who’s isn’t?
| 1. |
show Tom every single day how much I love him
1 entry . 1 cheer |
1 person |
| 2. |
lose 20 pounds
1 entry |
6,649 people |
| 3. |
Weigh 115 pounds.
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156 people |
| 4. |
Get my masters
1 entry . 2 cheers |
631 people |
| 5. |
quit teaching
1 entry |
21 people |
| 6. |
spend more time in nature
1 entry . 2 cheers |
121 people |
| 7. |
have more patience
1 entry |
636 people |
| 8. |
finish writing my book
1 entry . 1 cheer |
455 people |
| 9. |
explore texas
1 entry |
3 people |
| 10. |
Find a second job...that I like.
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2 people |
| 11. |
start writing my next book
1 entry |
2 people |
| 12. |
invest more money
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20 people |
| 13. |
spend less money
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934 people |
| 14. |
sing in a band
1 entry |
705 people |
| 15. |
paint my living room
1 entry |
75 people |
| 16. |
get a new hair style
1 entry |
29 people |
| 17. |
Send a postcard to Postsecret
1 entry |
2,841 people |
| 18. |
Visit all state parks in Texas
1 entry |
2 people |
| 19. |
live a simple life
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197 people |
| 20. |
volunteer more
1 entry |
1,199 people |
| 21. |
Send a message in a bottle
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3,638 people |
| 22. |
find a message in a bottle
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244 people |
| 23. |
stop procrastinating
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26,955 people |
| 24. |
learn to weld
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427 people |
| 25. |
turn my yard into a native plant garden
1 cheer |
2 people |
| 26. |
buy a boat
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407 people |
| 27. |
design and get another tattoo
1 entry . 1 cheer |
7 people |
| 28. |
make a bowl out of an old record
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2 people |
| 29. |
spend more time with my dogs
2 entries . 1 cheer |
43 people |
| 30. |
stay a non-smoker
1 entry . 2 cheers |
35 people |
| 31. |
have a website again
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2 people |
| 32. |
make the most of every day
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20 people |
| 33. |
go swimming more often
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29 people |
| 34. |
eat healthier
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10,129 people |
| 35. |
find one positive thing to say about my day every day
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1 person |
| 36. |
move to the country
1 entry |
135 people |
| 37. |
Persuade Texas to secede
1 entry |
4 people |
| 38. |
Have more fantastic sex with the man I love!
1 cheer |
1 person |
| 39. |
dress up as Miss Havisham for Halloween
1 entry |
2 people |
| 40. |
find a perfect amazing affordable house to live in
1 entry |
2 people |
| 41. |
Organize my craft room
1 entry |
48 people |
How I did it: I had to set aside a certain amount of time each day - usually as soon as I got home from work - to write just a little bit. Sometimes I'd write more and get behind on other stuff I needed to do. And this isn't something you can ever finish; it's an ongoing project, so saying I've Done It only means I've found a method that seems to work for me to KEEP doing it. Read how I did it…
How I did it: A woman at the range was mystified with my shooting. I tried explaining that I've been doing this since I was a wee lass, but she insisted that I teach her how. From there, Tom gave me inspiration and support and ideas on how to start giving classes aimed at women. I sent out emails to everyone I knew and took business cards to gun shops, pawn shops, and women-owned businesses and began to build up a client base with zero money for advertising! Read how I did it…
How I did it: First, my ex-husband took the TV when I kicked him out. My mother bought me a new TV, but I really don't enjoy any of the programming anymore - even with cable. I have a ton of hobbies I enjoy, so that helps. All day I hear noise, noise, noise, and it's nice to come home and hear the dead silence and fish tanks. Read how I did it…
...but that mess is my gripe.
That was a horrible attempt at a Beastie Boys allusion. Forgive me.
Yes, my craft room is a mess. Who’s isn’t?
I love this home. WE bought it together and it fit all of our needs. But since WE became ME and then a new kind of WE, this old house just doesn’t work for the new and improved US.
I don’t want to leave the first home I bought. I don’t want to leave the home I fought so valiantly and, sometimes, I think, foolishly to keep. The fact of the matter is, though, that it just doesn’t fit the new life I have.
Although it is MY house, and I’ve lived here 8 times longer alone than I ever did with HIM, it’s still a reminder of a marriage that was only one-sided. It’s a monthly reminder that my ex-husband, the mortgage broker, was a dumb emm-effer and didn’t even know his own job well enough to keep us from getting caught up in this mortgage crisis with an 80/20 ARM! It’s a reminder of a stepson I will, more than likely, never see again. And so, really, it’s just time to move the eff on already.
I won NaNo this year, but now I don’t want to look at that book again. It needs revision, it needs more meat…but I can’t look at it. I get queasy just thinking about working on it again.
So, much like everything else I get bored or disenchanted with, I shall forget all about it, and move on!
Now, I’m focusing on my NEXT novel, written at MY pace.