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I went on a ski trip with a friend and her friend yesterday. She did so many bitchy things that went way beyond cutting her some slack. Her car batter died the night before. My boyfriend helped her jump her car. She didn’t seem that appreciative. During the drive, I gave her directions off my GPS which she totally ignored until we got lost. On the mountain, she was being very annoying. It was her second time snowboarding and she wasn’t very good. That’s not the problem but he attitude was just too much. She was quiet on the way home. We all sensed that so we kept quiet. No one said a word the whole 2-hour trip back even when she dropped us off. It was stupid since we just had a really good day of skiing and she had to ruin it because she’s the center of the universe. If anything we did was bothering her she could have said something other than being bitchy passive aggressive like this especialy when she pride herself for being straightforward and cutting through the crap unlike most girls.
I don’t like people who expect others to tend to their needs or feel like they can ruin others day like this. It is very childish and I’ve decided to stop enabling people like this. She’s done something like this before and apologize afterwards. I let it go before but I don’t appreciate being walked over like this. Why would I have to read her mood and cater to all the crap she needs… I need friends who are considered, who value the relationships, who may slip once in a while but would sincerely apologize hoping friends will forgive them rather than just expect them to.
