attitude_matters

So I am gonna be 25 in about a month an a half.. and I feel the clock is ticking.
I have given myself 3 more years until I am 28 to relatively feel more settled in life..
By then I want to be in a job I love waking up in the morning for , know I am making a difference in the world, get paid well for it and where I know I am growing both personally and professionally.
Personally I want to have lost all my excess weight ( hopefully it should not take as long as three years) and be with someone where it is a serious relationship going towards a life together.. and obviously the guy has to be amazing, kind, humane, intelligent,compassionate, generous , should love traveling , should love and respect my parents as his own and above all I should be his world ! Oh and most importantly , he should respect me as a human being first before looking at me as a woman.
By then I also want to have traveled parts of the world,at least Europe, and the US.
So this is my small list of things I want for myself.. I am ( well sort of ) working on losing the weight part and I would be graduating with masters from Ox this summer and going for an internship with WHO , so hopefully that should improve my chances of getting the sorta job I want.. but for the rest .. I have no clue what I can or should do … I guess it will figure itself out in due course of time. :)

Right! again if only I could do this consistently I would lose all the 30 or so pounds i’ve piled on since undergrad !

Right! So I know this sounds like I am not over him.. but I honestly am ! Its just that where I’ve moved to , he lives like 15 mins away ! So its just easy you know when you are new in a city and you know someone whom you shared so much with.. anyway..hopefully it should’nt be such a prob as I am moving to Geneva in a month for my internship anyway.. but during this month I need to practice more self restraint and not call him every time I am bored !