I can listen and give great insight into others troubles without even trying… I’m quiet so people often tell me some of the craziest things about their lives and feelings. I dont really mind all that much… just happy to help how I can… but sometimes I just wish I had someone to listen to me talk. Plus, because I’ve spent so much time listening and carefully choosing my words to accurately answer the persons pressing questions about their situation, I often find it hard to piece together the best sentences to describe the concerns in my own life to others.
I find it difficult to make small talk.
I also find group discussions difficult because people tend to jump through topics too fast. While I’m weighing both sides of an agrument, comparing the facts, seeking more information into the history of the argument and other information that will lead me to the most accurate and effective conclusion, everyone else has already moved on through several other topics. I guess in short I over analyze things, and have a fear of making a statement I can’t back entirely through any opposing argument.
