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How I did it
How to be less emotional
It took me
2 years
It made me
whatevs.

How I did it: i learned to keep my cool by spending time with older relatives. they're pretty reserved and can be judgmental of me. i could never act out there so i learned to bite my tongue.  it was really hard because i want to express myself, but i didn't want to lose my temper. at my job i had to put up with a lot of jerks throwing shots and drunks and a bunch of stuff. i tried to remain professional.so i think i have developed more control ov… Read how I did it…

Jan 03, 12:50AM PST | 0 comments | 6 cheers


How to let go of the past
It took me
5 years
It made me
omg i don't care

How I did it: i tried a lot of things. therapy, support groups, moving. each of them helped a little. but the wisdom that i needed appeared out of no where. it was few and far between. once in a while someone would speak something that really stuck to me. and that's what i would base my life around until i came to the next thing. the past is really enticing. its so easy to dwell and nourish the desire to look back into the past. no matter how much you … Read how I did it…

Oct 22, 2009, 06:01PM PDT | 1 comment | 7 cheers


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post random questions daily and see if anyone plays with me and answers them :) (read all 67 entries…)
Flirt

i don’t assume this applies to everyone. I’ve seen proof that it doesn’t. I am just curious if anyone else feels similar to me.

I don’t like flirting. I don’t think I am good at it and I don’t usually enjoy it. There have been other times in my life when it came a lot more naturally at me but I’ve never been a great at it.

But whenever I google flirting much of the help is going out to men in need who don’t know how to ‘play the game’. If chivalry is not dead, then its on life support.

are you a flirt?
do you like to flirt?
do you flirt all the time or only with certain people?
do you flirt at work? why or why not?
is flirting harder for men or women?

Feb 01, 03:10AM PST | 4 cheers | 28 comments


be my own leader
this is a great goal.

if i do say so myself. i forgot that i added it and i saw it at the bottom of my list and thought, hell yeah. imho at least in my life there have been a lot of times where i needed guidance and didn’t have one and didn’t know how to respond or what to do …

i just can’t believe no one else cheered it.

Jan 31, 01:33AM PST | 0 comments


post random questions daily and see if anyone plays with me and answers them :) (read all 67 entries…)
the last thing someone

asked or said to you

that surprised or baffled you.

Jan 29, 10:39AM PST | 27 comments


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