It can be so incredibly frustrating when you begin to have feelings for a woman you’re dating…you want something more than just sex, like a LTR, and there’s just a mismatch in terms of wants/needs. I just can’t see putting so much emotional investment into a woman who isn’t on the same page. I guess I should just enjoy what is…which is fine. But I’m not going to continue to see this woman exclusively at the expense of finding myself a more emotionally-fulfilling LTR and wife. I deserve a woman who recognizes what I bring to the table, one who isn’t hesitant to pursue a relationship with more promise.
barbarino's Life List
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1. find a beautiful, down-to-earth woman to marry
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2. Find jazz musicians to jam/perform with
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3. Eat out much less and cook more!
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4. Try two new social activities each month
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5. have more sex
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6. Make new friends
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7. Do more things that make me happy
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8. exercise 3x each week
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9. take more art classes now that I'm working again
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10. Establish a daily creative ritual
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11. do yoga every week
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12. make nature a greater part of my life
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13. Be happy without being in love.
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14. Start a alt jazz/experimental/improvisational/fusion music project
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15. sit up straight
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16. have my own art show
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17. save my money!
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18. Become better at planning vacations in advance!
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19. not be so hard on myself
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20. Have a sense of purpose
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21. quit the corporate world
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22. Find my purpose in life
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23. Build a 6-month financial cushion
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24. find peace within myself
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25. work less, live more
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26. implement the principles in the Four Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferris
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27. travel the world
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How I did it: I took a position with a non-profit that produces Film Festivals and got to work in an art museum every day. After doing this for 2 years, I quit (low pay) and vowed to get myself an art studio. Looking back, I've done quite a bit. I've co-organized 3 open studio events, each of which drew 500 to 700 attendees. I started a group called Atlanta Painters and hosted life drawing and painting sessions...I took painting and drawing classes...l… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I used Dreamweaver to put up a few pages and Photoshop to resize my images. The site isn't anything special...it's functional. I wanted to hire a designer, but didn't feel like dropping $3,000+ on this. I created several thumbnail pages. No navigation bar (yet). Read how I did it…
since I last had a girlfriend. And I’ve finally met a woman whom I really care about. This is my first entry with something positive to report, so I am truly grateful. I just need to remember to enjoy the journey.
This has been a long time coming…I met a woman whom I really enjoy spending time with. She’s smart, beautiful, and we’re both into art. My faith in humanity has been restored! There are few things on this planet as wonderful as sexual intimacy.

