I'm doing 21 things
trying
4 years ago
I’ve dropped down to my high school weight after having 2 kids, but feel like I’m just not in shape. But where do I find the time?
beertimewidow's Life List
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1. have a kicka** garden
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2. be ok with being alone
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3. be happy with my job
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4. figure out men
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5. write a book
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6. learn how to harmonize
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7. learn how to play guitar
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8. Reconnect with old friends
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9. divorce
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10. sew
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11. get into blogging
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12. get organized--and stay that way
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13. go to italy
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14. get back into yoga
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15. stick with exercise
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16. take a cooking course
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17. get out of debt
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18. learn to relax
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19. find happiness
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20. be more patient
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21. try pilates
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Recent entries
working on it
4 years ago
If DH can’t be honest with himself, he can’t be honest with me. Ignoring a quasi-physical, intensely emotional “affair” WILL NOT make it go away. Is it worth it to try to deal with my own emotional fallout without any input from him? Would I have more peace of mind without this cloud hanging over my head? It’s completely within his power to ease my mind, but it would require him admitting his own weakness and recognizing his own culpability. If that is beyond him, where do I go from here? I’m probably one of the few women in the world that would be better off financially, but at what cost to myself and my kids?
struggling
4 years ago
I can’t see this working…My salary is down 60%, and I think the only way to make ends meet and be happy is to just find another job.
