beertimewidow

I’ve dropped down to my high school weight after having 2 kids, but feel like I’m just not in shape. But where do I find the time?

If DH can’t be honest with himself, he can’t be honest with me. Ignoring a quasi-physical, intensely emotional “affair” WILL NOT make it go away. Is it worth it to try to deal with my own emotional fallout without any input from him? Would I have more peace of mind without this cloud hanging over my head? It’s completely within his power to ease my mind, but it would require him admitting his own weakness and recognizing his own culpability. If that is beyond him, where do I go from here? I’m probably one of the few women in the world that would be better off financially, but at what cost to myself and my kids?

I can’t see this working…My salary is down 60%, and I think the only way to make ends meet and be happy is to just find another job.

Every year I plant my veggie garden. Then, as things get more hectic, I never get the time to actually work in it. I want to set aside time every few days for the entire summer to actually work in the garden and keep it going.

about how to go about this. Is it really being alone if you have a toddler and infant keeping you company? I guess it doesn’t matter, since it still feels like being alone. But I get lonely, which is really the goal I’m after—to not feel lonely when I’m alone.

I’ve always loved traveling…and loved the time I spent in Europe in high school. But I didn’t get to make it to Italy, it just seems like such a beautiful part of the world.