Okay, so this used to say “2006”. And I didn’t do it. BUT. I’m two and a half months into 2007 and I’m still doing this. My trick, for now, is to do an Excel spreadsheet. For whatever reason, I find it very soothing.
belladonnalin's Life List
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1. Drink less coffee and more tea
2 cheers14 people -
2. write a cookbook
2 cheers283 people -
3. Answer my e-mail
3 cheers4 people -
4. improve my spanish
1,094 people -
5. stop thinking about people who have hurt me
5 cheers6 people -
6. Send a postcard to Postsecret
2 cheers3,025 people -
7. have an affair with myself
4 cheers2 people -
8. pay my bills on time
2 cheers333 people -
9. Have more 'things I've done' than 'things I want to do' on 43 Things.
1 entry . 1 cheer41 people -
10. never settle
1 entry . 2 cheers138 people -
11. stop hating my body
3 cheers48 people -
12. write a book
1 entry30,180 people -
13. Travel to South America
1 cheer436 people -
14. forgive myself
1 cheer750 people -
15. live passionately
1 cheer5,717 people -
16. To live instead of exist
11,669 people -
17. perfect my vegan lasagne
2 cheers1 person -
18. keep a dream journal
1 cheer472 people -
19. get my PhD
1 entry . 1 cheer873 people -
20. express my anger
1 entry . 1 cheer20 people -
21. strengthen, reestablish, and nurture my existing friendships
44 people -
22. Keep Track of All Books Read in 2007
2 entries1 person -
23. Carry my camera with me everywhere (Just in case. You never know when you'll stumble across a good photo moment)
2 cheers66 people -
24. Find a balance between the things I want to do and the things I need to do
2,383 people -
25. meditate regularly
793 people
With the exception of one grandmother who is dying, I have come out to my entire extended family either on my own or via my parents mentioning things. This is particularly amazing because my conservative parents are the ones who started telling people, not wanting it to be awkward when people met my long-term partner. And, I have to say, it has brought some of us a lot closer together, including at least three family members who had found an old online journal who said “We knew that, we were just waiting for you to know.”
Honestly, I thought it would be horrible. My family has definitely surprised me.
I’m currently doing this in the back of my Slingshot organizer – I can’t believe that I’m remembering! It’s also pretty amazing how much I read. So far, so good.
