When my boyfriend and I said I love you the other day, it turns out we’d both been thinking about it for a while. Being my 1st love, it felt so strange at first having finally said it! But it feels so good being able to be open about how much I care about him.
What surprised me is that, somewhat naively I suppose, I thought “love” would feel like the crazy, emotional rollercoaster 1st stages of a relationship. But when I finally realized I loved him, it was the long-lasting, deep, caring side I was thinking of. I guess the crazy part is infatuation. Which has turned into love :)
I guess it might be different for others whose relationships aren’t based on friendship, but we were purely friends for 6 months before we started going out, so we had a solid base for the relationship beforehand. But this is what love is like for me anyway.
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I HAVE been doing a lot more kissing recently, but I don’t want to check it off the list cos it’s just such a good goal! And now I’m doing more kissing (with my boyfriend I might add!), it makes me appreciate how much more fun it is to kiss someone you really care about rather than some random guy you’ve just met…! Horray for kissing :-P xxxxx
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3 months ago
Sometimes it IS hard to find things to do every day that are scary, but without really thinking about it all the time, I think I’ve got much better at this. Not enough to tick it off just yet, but I’ve found that just by taking opportunities and doing things I’m iffy about even if I’m scared, I have done loads of stuff that I’m scared of, and I think it’s making me a better person. So never mind if it’s one thing a day or not… just take a few leaps and see where it leads you :)
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