Just having a BAD DAY :(
I knew our love could keep us together, and I still believe that with all my heart. But who knew it would be so HARD???
Reminds me of this saying “What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?”
Hope the rest of you aren’t having such a bad time of it today. Lots of love to all. x
Oct 13, 2008, 10:18AM PDT | 2 cheers | 1 comment
Early days...
13 months ago
I’ve just got into a long distance relationship. We’ve been together half a year but a few days ago he moved 6 hours away to go to university. It’s okay and we’re both just getting used to the change… but (of course) it’s also horribly painful. I find myself being really irrational and getting upset about silly things which don’t mean anything.
Has anyone else found this?
I’m sure it’ll settle down and although it will never be easy, it will hopefully get easiER. I just need someone to tell me that it’ll be alright… please?!
Oct 08, 2008, 04:46AM PDT | 1 cheer | 6 comments
"I love you"
16 months ago
When my boyfriend and I said I love you the other day, it turns out we’d both been thinking about it for a while. Being my 1st love, it felt so strange at first having finally said it! But it feels so good being able to be open about how much I care about him.
What surprised me is that, somewhat naively I suppose, I thought “love” would feel like the crazy, emotional rollercoaster 1st stages of a relationship. But when I finally realized I loved him, it was the long-lasting, deep, caring side I was thinking of. I guess the crazy part is infatuation. Which has turned into love :)
I guess it might be different for others whose relationships aren’t based on friendship, but we were purely friends for 6 months before we started going out, so we had a solid base for the relationship beforehand. But this is what love is like for me anyway.
Jul 18, 2008, 03:12PM PDT | 0 comments