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And I spend enough time at my friends places in the city to get the idea. It’s beautiful, lively, watch out for the winter if you can’t handle lots of grey skys and rain. Nightlife, music, food, the salty air and just so much to do. I’ve enjoyed my stay.

No magic bullet, just isn’t. Time helps sure, blah blah, some is required, but truly the only cure is falling in love. Sad part is that love doesn’t come when you’re still broken…which brings back the time thing again. Introspection, reflection, friends, growing from the experience, improving, knowing what is desired and what isn’t. In my opinion, those are the roads to take while the ‘time’ passes, then blam! You’ll fall in love again. Well, that’s how it worked for me the first time…

It’s the oddest nervous habit, and it just sucks. I don’t even know exactly how I quit, I just kept trying over and over. I’d stop, then start up, then say ok, starting on Fri no more. Lather, rinse, repeat. I even quite for months and then started again. It’s fundamentally two things in my opinion. a) Will power / persistence
b) Identifying ways to deal and/or reduce stress in your life.

Did you ever notice that when you are less stressed you bite your nails less, or even not at all…say when you’re on vacation. That’s how it was for me. Anyways, a+b worked for me…eventually. I know you can do it, ‘cause I did and I was very under that habit’s control. Best wishes.