I'm doing 32 things
final paperwork went before the judge in the summer. he sent back a note about child support, responded & waiting it to pass before him again. Would be nice if it were done by the end of the year – a chapter of my life that so needs to be closed & left in the past!
bluerunningbunny's Life List
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1. learn how to forgive myself
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2. get divorced
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3. find purpose
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4. live passionately
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5. find work I'm passionate about
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6. learn to sew
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7. be happier
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8. start dating again
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9. meet someone special
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10. shoot a crossbow
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11. be aspinerated
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12. learn to drive standard
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13. learn double-knitting
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14. learn contentment
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15. learn to drive a motorcycle
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16. learn sign language
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17. see the northern lights
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18. be a better mother
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19. Hike and backpack as much as possible
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20. go back to school
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21. make love in the rain
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22. learn to dance
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23. Kiss in the rain
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24. kiss under fireworks
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25. learn to be more patient
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26. buy a house
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27. not worry about what others think of me
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28. trust my own judgement
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29. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
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30. be more confident
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31. Fall in love
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32. learn to speak better French
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Recent entries
The initial paperwork has been filed, waiting for the next lot from the ex, good chance this will be accomplished before my birthday, yay!
lost my job close to a year ago & after getting over the initial shock, anger & upset, it was great for quite a while. I enjoyed spending more time with my son, having time to myself, having time to think about what I wanted to do, time to re-work my resume, time to think about other aspects of my life.
Once severance ran out, things got very stressful until unemployment kicked in.
I had thought for sure I’d find something new before the severance ran out so even once the unemployment kicked in, stress had crept in.
It’s closing in on a year and unemployment is running out in a month and the stress & worry is very high now & being a single mother has made the whole situation sucky.
Quitting or losing a job is one thing when you have no one depending on you, but without something else to go to, is not worth it at the stage of life I’m at.
sigh
