final paperwork went before the judge in the summer. he sent back a note about child support, responded & waiting it to pass before him again. Would be nice if it were done by the end of the year – a chapter of my life that so needs to be closed & left in the past!
bluerunningbunny's Life List
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1. learn to be more patient
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2. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
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3. be aspinerated
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4. learn to drive standard
172 people -
5. learn double-knitting
11 people -
6. learn contentment
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7. meet someone special
2 cheers192 people -
8. make love in the rain
8 cheers2,046 people -
9. learn sign language
1 entry . 3 cheers7,790 people -
10. go back to school
2 entries . 5 cheers2,501 people -
11. Hike and backpack as much as possible
11 cheers32 people -
12. trust my own judgement
4 cheers5 people -
13. get divorced
3 entries . 4 cheers240 people -
14. learn to drive a motorcycle
309 people -
15. be a better mother
3 entries . 10 cheers615 people -
16. not worry about what others think of me
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17. be more confident
4 cheers10,399 people -
18. Kiss in the rain
1 entry . 1 cheer14,616 people -
19. find work I'm passionate about
1 cheer953 people -
20. start dating again
1 entry . 1 cheer120 people -
21. kiss under fireworks
2 cheers50 people -
22. be happier
1 cheer960 people -
23. find purpose
2 cheers44 people -
24. Fall in love
2 cheers24,746 people -
25. shoot a crossbow
1 cheer8 people -
26. see the northern lights
2 cheers17,162 people -
27. learn to sew
2 entries . 1 cheer3,700 people -
28. live passionately
4 cheers5,575 people -
29. learn how to forgive myself
1 entry . 28 cheers6 people -
30. learn to dance
1 entry . 3 cheers6,650 people -
31. buy a house
1 entry . 2 cheers12,794 people -
32. learn to speak better French
1 cheer6 people
The initial paperwork has been filed, waiting for the next lot from the ex, good chance this will be accomplished before my birthday, yay!
lost my job close to a year ago & after getting over the initial shock, anger & upset, it was great for quite a while. I enjoyed spending more time with my son, having time to myself, having time to think about what I wanted to do, time to re-work my resume, time to think about other aspects of my life.
Once severance ran out, things got very stressful until unemployment kicked in.
I had thought for sure I’d find something new before the severance ran out so even once the unemployment kicked in, stress had crept in.
It’s closing in on a year and unemployment is running out in a month and the stress & worry is very high now & being a single mother has made the whole situation sucky.
Quitting or losing a job is one thing when you have no one depending on you, but without something else to go to, is not worth it at the stage of life I’m at.
sigh
