I'm doing 34 things
Now I know how to stop hating ourselves. First step is stop criticizing yourself. Just think over..nobody is perfect. If God has given this birth, we should make life more meaningful by ignoring our faults too. This will help you not to fall in guilt pit fro the crime you did not commit.
Second step is start developing confidence in yourself. Believe in yourself. You can do several things better than others do.
Third step is very important and I found it very promising too. You do not have any control over several things. I have read in “Bhagvatgita” a theory called Samkhyayog. This theory says every thing is predestined..every moment of life.. To whom you are meeting today, to whom you are taking lunch..every thing is predestined. We can not rule over nature or God. Then why worry about the things going on around you..you can not be judge of yourself or you can not become God. Let him do whatever he has decided. Do not challenge his role. If you go back in your life..you will find every sorrow, every happiness had its own time circle. In your sorrow you tried to make full efforts to come out ,nothing happened..it took its own time. In happiness you tried hard to grab those moments but could you do that..? It passed away in due time. Problem is that sometimes we become over sensitive and start brooding over things where we do not have any control. We start cursing our self for the change we do not like. Friends I was away from this website for sometimes. I spent my time in reading and analyzing things. But now I want to share my feelings with you all. I have started loving myself. I understand now I am God’s pride possession. If I hate myself I would hate my creator.
morning glory's Life List
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1. write more meaningful
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2. Express myself through writing.
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3. learn about 43 new places by finding out "What you like and find fascinating about your place?"
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4. rescue and give love to stray animals
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5. read people's mind
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6. know where and why communicaion is important
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7. donate my organs (once i'm dead)
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8. forgive all
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9. have a dream
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10. learn what are the limits of making compromise
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11. save my inner child
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12. find out what is the role of religion in the path of searching peace
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13. Celeberate present..forget all about past and do not want to live in fear for unknown future
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14. Find a friend close to my heart
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15. go through my wardrobe and donate things I'll never wear again.
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16. Give cheers to all my old pal from 43things. to revive our old memories
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17. Visit Venice and ride in a gondola
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18. stop being a perfectionist
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19. Rebuild my confidence
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20. get spiritual highs
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21. Get out of Depression
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22. Read more books
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23. experience death
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24. create a list of over 100 must-read books and read them
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25. I want to be a simple and honest person
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26. find out the truth of relationship
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27. feel more connected with the world
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28. know the difference between dependence,independence and interdependence
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29. stop biting my nails
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30. Share some of my random thoughts that don't fit under any particular goal
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31. make friends on 43 things
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32. Rewrite my life script
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33. make a documentary film
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34. Chicago ..yipeee....
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How I did it: I should not have been judgemental about anybody. People come in work place from different back ground. They are not accustomed to the grace and etiquettes needed in the office. Why should I expect personal respect from them. They are not my family. I have stopped paying attention to them.. But sometimes I feel pity on them. They have just joined the office and they have miles to go. What to say only time will teach them few lessons. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I think its in my blood. I love to remain alone. During this goal I tried to meet people. But I got tired soon. People have their own world,their own engagements. People have their own mood swings too like me. How can I expect everybody to pay me attention when they have got their own worries. No I do not want this. I do not want to be artificial, can not wear plastic smile all the time. I want to be my own. I prefer to live in lonely cel… Read how I did it…
How I did it: This goal proved a far-fetched dream to me. I love to eat, even I dream of food. In my dreams I see variety of food. I remember one story of famous writer of India Mr. Premchand, who wrote a beautiful story about an old lady.."Burhi Kaki"(old aunt). This lady is crippled and living on the mercy of her nephew. Her nephew has inheritted her property and has become less sensitive,less caring towards his aunt. In her nephew's niece marriage a… Read how I did it…
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