it’s only really helpful if you bring up what you remember later, but just asking someone questions about themselves and how their lives are going makes you feel much more connected. i used to be good at this and then i went into my shell a bit but i’ve started coming out more and it’s lovely.
cen989's Life List
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1. cry because i'm happy
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2. pick one class/teacher and see where sucking up and coming in after class gets me
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3. go on a fun date
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4. cheer more people!
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5. Stick it to The Man
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6. help people and make a difference in people's life.. I want them to remember me for something..
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7. Spend less time fooling around on the net and more time actually working
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8. stop caring what people think about me
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9. get married
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10. visit New Zealand
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11. have conversations late into the night with fascinating people
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12. never apologize for being me
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13. complete everything on my list!
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14. be there for people
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15. get no C's this year
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16. be in a school movie
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17. give at least $20 to a homeless person
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18. Swim with dolphins
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19. Send someone flowers for no reason
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20. Take more photos
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21. scream at night in the rain
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22. inspire someone
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23. make out in a pool
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24. go on a road trip for no reason and have no clue where im going
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25. put an asshole in their place
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26. spend at least an hour in the art room every day
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27. leave random notes and pictures for friends in their lockers etc
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28. find out something about a teacher I'm not supposed to know
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29. see Conan O'Brien in New York
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30. cook more
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31. go star gazing more
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Recent entries
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18 months ago
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18 months ago
2 things
first one: i’m learning how to drive after fracturing some vertebrae right before i turned 16 in a nasty car accident
second one: i finally confronted my boyfriend about some hurtful things he did to me in previous less mature years. he was very helpful and encouraging me to get it out, and it felt wonderful and feels wonderful even now.
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18 months ago
if you’re with a group of the right people, it’s definitely worth doing! it’s very freeing
