How we've done it...
3 years ago
yes, we have split up several times but I think after the first 10 years it has gotten significantly better. The one thing I have learned is to stay busy. I have a full time job. My husband also works full time but he gets home early from work so he gets to take care of the kids for several hours before I get home. He has learned after taking on a ten year old, an 8 year old and a one year old..how hard laundry is…what gets on my 8 year old’s nerves and how to handle a messy baby. Kids make our lives interesting and wonderful. I believe without kids it’s hard to say you have experienced a marriage. Before we had kids we really didn’t know each other well at all.

