I'm doing 43 things
I am a perfectionist and freeze up whenever I start to worry about things not being ‘right’. I’d like to loosen up and stop worrying about what other people might think… there’s no real ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ in so many aspects of life. I live by a moral code and I try to be true to what I believe, and I am good enough just the way I am….... but these things are hard to remember in any sort of social situation. I don’t want to worry about what other people are thinking. For one thing, it’s egotistical … what makes me think they’re thinking about me? And for another, it’s preventing me from enjoying life to its fullest. I plan to take small steps to make myself look foolish and see how it doesn’t hurt….. and hopefully make myself realize that the biggest critic in my life is me.
clearskye's Life List
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1. go back to school
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2. publish my writing
255 people -
3. lose weight
40,802 people -
4. take ballet lessons
70 people -
5. relax
1,984 people -
6. make sense of my life
6 people -
7. Stop caring what other people think of me
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8. take care of myself first
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9. be true to myself
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10. sing in a choir
106 people -
11. eat less meat
287 people -
12. be trustworthy
29 people -
13. be more patient
3,168 people -
14. visit Japan
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15. help save cheetahs
3 people -
16. be more confident
11,462 people -
17. have fun
3,335 people -
18. become well read
76 people -
19. find peace
379 people -
20. practice yoga
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21. learn to strip
90 people -
22. go tornado chasing
15 people -
23. get a tattoo
22,045 people -
24. take a cruise
620 people -
25. finish a significant piece of writing
1 person -
26. go out dancing
34 people -
27. live in the moment
2,081 people -
28. have a baby
6,261 people -
29. go hiking
659 people -
30. be consumed by passion
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31. be a good friend
970 people -
32. build a website
654 people -
33. create beautiful things
19 people -
34. play more
202 people -
35. enjoy being alone
15 people -
36. travel
8,750 people -
37. help other people
163 people -
38. be more musically literate
1 person -
39. learn to play the piano
8,241 people -
40. play the ukelele
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41. pay off my debts
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42. own a condo
31 people -
43. finish what I start
4,068 people
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