My bipolar friend is lashing out at people that want to help her. She has not done anything about her problem. She is taking her time with it and everyone around her is anxious, upset and most do not want anything to do with her. Please God help me find the right way on how to help her. Her lies are destroying her. She is in couseling but needs to find a way to stop the lying. It’s so destructive.
A truthful life is a stress free life.
clearthinker's Life List
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1. Weigh 129
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2. Find friends that I can be myself with
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3. Find 1 best friend
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4. Make money and save it
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5. Do something positive with the way I look.
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6. Find a good paying job in 2009 that I love.
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7. Work on forgiveness. Let it leave my body, mind and soul.
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8. Get my office and paper work in tip top working order and organized
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9. Build a beautiful bath hut in my back yard
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10. Find one man that I can connect with on all levels.
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11. Finish my quilt
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12. Build a comfortable cabin in the woods.
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13. Weigh 120 and stay there forever
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How I did it: I broke up with him because I could not take his nonsense anymore. He has tried to get together several tries but I won't give in. I feel much better and much more free since away from him. Also felt weird and used even though I know he loved me. Read how I did it…
I have figured out why I’m eating out of control and feel so horrible. I’ve been spending too much time around my bipolar friend and she went into a lying frenzie and it drained the living juice out of my system. Even though I know she is ill being around constant bullshit is draining and irritating. She has bills she needs to pay and just talks about traveling, going to exotic places and does not care that her bills do not get paid.
Being around that stresses me and I eat weird stuff. We decided to take a break and now I’m not as hungry. I’m a stress eater so my constant hunger will be better.
Now back to healthy living.
I met my friend’s counselor and told her that my friend was back to lying a great deal. The counselor told my friend I had said this. My friend lies to everyone and sometimes people believe her and then find out she lies, they treat her like crap and avoid her. By helping, I’m not sure I’m helping but when someone is so ill, someone needs to step up and at least get them to a professional, and that is what I did and doing. My bipolar friend can drain the leaving HELL out of a person with her secrete lifestyle, her lies and her constant bullshit. When she is not manic she is a fun and sweet person. God please give me strength to continue with such a tormented soul and God please help her find balance in her life. Amen.

