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1. accept your positive and negative charateristics: Nobody is perfect, there will always be somebody who has more or is better looking than you, do you really want to spend your whole life chasing after sombody else?

2. Accept the positive and negative characteristics of OTHER poeple: you will never be happy unless you accept poeple for who they are, WE CANNOT CONTROL OTHERS. The more we try, the more unhappy we will be because we will inevitably fail at that.

3. listen atentively when others speak:A better communication creates a better interaction and connection. the more connected you are with others you respect and admire, the happier you will feel.

4. withhold judgement and try to look at other poeples point of view: judgement is not for that of the perciever, it is for those who are the ingorant.

5. Learn from negative experiences:
we must move on! Learn from mistakes and use these tools to aide you in your next big decision or relationship.

So after tearing my ACL, I got to go to the Gym for the FIRST TIME in three months! The doctor didn’t exactly give it the A-Ok, but my PT’s did and that is good enough for me.

Man, oh man surgery is a bitch when you are just getting over a break up and trying to “not think about it”.

but I can GYM -It now – YAAAYYYY

Today is a bad day again.
I emailed him and told him how I was not doing well. I can’t even belive now that I let him have that satisfaction. I don’t even know if that is what he would get out of it, maybe he is worried about me. I am worried about me.