seems like my resolve is just better since having a baby (another girl, to boot). I have wanted to, and haven’t, and each time the decision is easier. I don’t know what the fuck was going on last year, but it’s over now. I’m not going there anymore.
j t's Life List
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1. learn music theory, play piano well, play guitar well
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2. chakra it up/ three sieves/ bless the water I ingest
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3. learn to love
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4. successfully preform my own music live
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5. publish a book
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6. self esteem
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7. precontemplation: flirting
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8. contemplation: self assertion (saying no)
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9. contemplation: impulse buying
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10. contemplation: physical compulsives
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11. contemplation: watching TV
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12. contemplation: posture (yes... again...)
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13. action: computer/fb addiction
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14. action: anger
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15. action: dental hygiene
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16. action: saying 'okay?' , etc
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17. maintenance: the mast
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18. maintenance: sugar free and vegan
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19. maintenance: not drinking
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20. maintenance: not smoking
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21. use my time according to my ultimate life goals, prioritized
1 entry . 1 cheer1 person
How I did it: My husband had been looking at places, but I kept finding things I really didn't like about them. So one morning, he says to me, since I have more stipulations about where we live than he does, how about I find a place. Okay I says, and I start by looking on kijiji that afternoon. There was nothing so I tried the Pennysaver, and I found a great place for less than most of the others we'd seen. I made an appointment to see it later that af… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I bought bookshelves, to fill up the walls, hangars to display our beautiful instruments, and frames to fill it out. I matched the bookshelf L-bars with our antique looking metal wall clock. It's soooo nice now! It took several months to get the funds together, but it was worth it, even if we move away in 3 months. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I went on Kajijji, and there it was, this job to be a childrens' party entertainer. I sent an email, making myself out to be wonderful, and they asked for another with my resume. I got an interview, and they said they were really interested. Out of 30 people, they hired 4 and I was one of them! The pay is amazing (a dollar a minute!) and I get just the right amount of hours! Sorry, though- their not hiring right now! Read how I did it…
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so… I’m off facebook, for good. When i gave it up i noticed that I was doing this thing in the back of my head where I would take whatever I was doing and make it into some witty facebook status and judge whether it was worth posting it or not. I would rarely, if ever, post anything. It took 2 weeks of no facebook to get rid of this background bullshit in my brain. i don’t want it to EVER come back.
my computer addiction is only getting worse though. can you believe it?
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Better parent
better teacher
suicide support group
piano/guitar teacher
knowing all the things I have access to-
khan, online school, all our books
get highschool or ged
be able to make something someone would actually buy
write a book, or several.
all scrapbooks done
feminist/political activism
get through court process
mentor my children in compassion, eliminate all anger
