bad for this goal. I’ve been cranky and frustrated at work, and as a result I’ve been entirely too negative with everyone – venting too much about other people, annoying situations, etc. This coming week I’m going to try to stop complaining so much so I can improve my spirits from the outside in.
Kate L's Life List
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1. do at least one thing each day to help reach my 43 goals
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2. get my shit together
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3. re-gain my self-confidence
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4. reach my goal weight
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5. be more creative
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6. learn to ride a bicycle
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7. learn to drive a manual
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8. take more photographs
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9. Dress better
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10. be a tourist in my own town
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11. go to New York
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12. Try new restaurants
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13. go to more farmer's markets
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14. Go to flea markets
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15. stop procrastinating
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16. have more friends
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17. finish fixing up my house
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18. have my parents visit more
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19. Host a game night
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20. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
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21. sell something on etsy
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22. stop worrying about what other people think of me
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23. learn about my family history
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24. train my dog
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25. learn to speak french
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26. live somewhere outside the Philadelphia area
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27. learn to screenprint
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28. actually do what's on my to-do list
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29. wake up when my alarm clock goes off
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30. have a tea party
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31. make a gingerbread house
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32. have everything ready early for Christmas next year
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33. toughen myself against the cold
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34. send more cards
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35. take better care of my body
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36. be more positive
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37. go camping
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38. make bread from scratch
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39. have a garage sale
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40. have sunday dinner every week
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41. Complement others
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42. keep my house tidy
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How I did it: It's June and I'm up to 11 books so far this year, so I'm calling this goal "accomplished."I turned it into a habit to read almost every night before bed, and I allowed myself to take time at other points during the day to indulge. Now I seem to sail through books, I feel like I've become a much faster reader. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I sort of knew what to do by reading through the sewing machine manual, but I took a basic sewing class last year that really solidified it. At this point I'm far from an expert seamstress, but I have the basic knowledge to do simple projects, which is really all I want to do at this point anyway. The nice thing about sewing is that it takes a fair bit of concentration, so it's a good excuse to declutter your mind … Read how I did it…
How I did it: Sometimes I'll make a big batch of something that will last through the week, but mostly I've just been just bringing leftovers from the previous night's dinner.The problem with buying lunch is that you're pretty much forced to choose between something healthy but expensive and something cheap but fattening. I got so tired of having to make that choice. Now I pretty much go the whole week without opening my wallet (during the … Read how I did it…
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...the past week, rainy and generally miserable. Still, I’m trying to be strong. My parents came to visit this weekend, and my mom is super sensitive to the cold, so we put the heat on for the first time. But since then, I’ve been trying to go without it. I’ve been going out with just a sweater, no coat – I refuse to unearth my winter coat until at least November. Just trying to be very Zen about the cold. My instinct is to clench up and brace myself against it, but I find that really it’s much better to just relax and let it wash over me. Let’s face it, winter can be pretty damn long, and I don’t want to just sit under the covers for the next five months.
The problem is that it’s easy to take my mind off it when I’m outside walking the dog, but doing things around the house can be tough. My nose gets runny and I feel permanently chilled. But heating a big old house is extremely pricey, and even when I crank the temperature up, it never really gets cozy. I think I’m going to try to do some jumping jacks or something when I start to feel chilly.
...sort of brought this up to my mom this weekend. She’s always a little closed-lipped about her family history, but every once in a while I hear some sort of little fascinating tidbit and I want to know more. Her cousin recently passed away, and she’s been in contact with a few of her other cousins as a result, so I think she’s been thinking about her family more. So this weekend I said, “One of these days I’m going to sit you down and interview you about all this stuff, I feel like I don’t know anything about anything.” She acted surprised and thought about it for a second and said, “Yeah, that’s a neat idea, to record it…hmmmm….” So I think that’s my “in”. Now I need to do it before I lose my nerve.
