i want to share an affirmation technique to u regarding this…whenever u feel u are falling back to ur old habits of giving care to ppl thoughts, never say : “i dont care what they think of me” INSTEAD SAY: i release the need to care about what these ppl think of me.this is because when u say i dont care wat ppl think of me, ur mind feels quite opposite coz it does no takes the ‘dont’ part of ur sentence.i.e u might become more conscious.dont believe? please try this..dont think of a fat elephant driving cycle. now wat came to ur mind? obviously u ended up thinking abt the elephant and dat proves my point
so i urge u dont care wat they think and do wat u feel rigHT while keeping in my dat ur acts DONT HURT THEM..
P.S i dont care if u liked it or not but i know i m right :)
my luv to evry1 here :) few months ago i realised the power underlying in this paradigm.since then i m continously trying to imbibe it in myself and hav got sucess to a degree now.many a times i fall back to my old programming and start thinking and my mind produces counter arguments like”why shud i not care wat ppl think and say abt me”...this is not only abt me,it will happen to evryone trying to change and nothing cud b more effective then reminding urself of benefits of this attitude:
1) nobody knows who u are,why u do anything that u do more than urself coz u r the only person who is 24 hrs a day wid urself.its just u dont judge urself and give dat power to others.REMEMBER no one can ever hold ur benefits and welfare so up like u can
2. it makes ur self confident skyrocket..when u dont care wat other ppl think of u and rather believe urself u r always pursuing wat u want with confidence.
3. caring about wat ppl think is such a huge waste of time.but how? it is coz if u care wat they think,u will always try to take good feedbacks/approvals frm them and in turn impress them.and i know from experience that ppl can go to any limits to impress others and waste lot of time and energy…(contd)