I have not been 43things motivated in a long time now but that is changing. As far as my weight well, I have gained more since my last post. A year or more ago. So, I will just have to work harder and I will get this done. This will be one thing that I know I will accomplish.
Doing Damn Dandy ;-)'s Life List
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1. Improve upon Myself
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2. paint furniture
1 entry . 10 cheers14 people -
3. be more honest with the 43 things I really want to do
1 entry . 12 cheers1 person -
4. Make a panel on the AIDS quilt for my brother Brian
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5. feel pretty
3 entries . 22 cheers348 people -
6. Have a best friend.
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7. Make new friends
7 entries . 19 cheers12,726 people -
8. go skinny dipping
1 entry . 14 cheers3,084 people -
9. learn to play guitar
1 entry . 17 cheers4,278 people -
10. List my 43 fave Musical Artist
39 entries . 14 cheers2 people -
11. Not give up on making as many of my dreams come true as possible
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12. don't sweat the small stuff
3 entries . 16 cheers65 people -
13. identify 100 things that make me happy.
19 entries . 18 cheers2,250 people -
14. stop being afraid of getting hurt and just jump in (sometimes)
5 entries . 41 cheers4 people -
15. compile a 100-things-about-me list
8 entries . 10 cheers665 people -
16. find a job that I will be happy at
6 entries . 12 cheers2 people -
17. live to see the legalization of gay marriage
1 entry . 12 cheers79 people -
18. master the hula hoop
1 entry . 16 cheers85 people -
19. Actually meet face-to-face with someone from 43 Things
10 cheers100 people -
20. lose weight
8 entries . 6 cheers36,280 people -
21. get in my car and drive to the beach for just one day
1 entry . 34 cheers1 person -
22. drink less soda and drink more water natural juices
3 entries . 14 cheers3 people -
23. visit all 50 states
1 entry . 12 cheers7,114 people -
24. Take my son to an NFL game
1 entry . 9 cheers1 person -
25. take my son to the New River Gorge Bridge in WV
1 entry . 11 cheers1 person -
26. finish decorating my kitchen
2 entries . 5 cheers4 people -
27. get married
2 entries . 1 cheer18,542 people -
28. Go Camping - even if only in my backyard
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29. get a 43things tee shirt
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30. share quotes
2 entries . 1 cheer120 people -
31. post random happenings of my life
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32. revamp myself
7 cheers1 person
How I did it: I took me a long time to realize that I was loved and I still sometimes take it for granted. I wanted a love beyond my family. I have been with Jeff for over 2 years and while he does not always show his love for me I know that he does love me. I just need to accept it more. Read how I did it…
How I did it: After a solid 10 years of smoking and a few years previous to that of on's and off's I have finally stopped smoking. Within days I truly felt better. From everyting I felt less slugish, I could breathe easier, I was not winded at all. I am amazed. It was not easy I will say that. Some nights when I would have been sitting at the table enjoy a cigarette in peace a month ago made it tortue the first few nights. Oh and I did this cold turkey… Read how I did it…
So many days I just want to give up on this. I don’t think I have had a converstaion with a “friend” in over a year. If not longer. I think I should give up. I cancelled my myspace account today. After almost four years of being on there I had accumelated all of 50 comments and maybe 8 friends all people I have worked with that where probaly only there out of sympathy. It was a waste having that account anyway. It’s a bigger waster wanting a friend.

