Kissing is my favorite thing in the world.
In my opinion, it’s the best part of intimacy. (And yes, I love all the other stuff, too, but kissing is the best.)
dbmyrrha's Life List
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1. STOP PROCRASTINATING!
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5. be more patient
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6. be a succulent wild woman
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7. show love every day
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9. become myself
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10. meditate more
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11. sing every day
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13. create my destiny
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19. do The Work
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21. create the soundtrack to my life
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24. have a garden
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30. feel good in my own skin
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31. learn spanish
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32. bellydance
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36. spend more quality time with people I love
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40. perform random acts of kindness and senseless beauty
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43. become a mom
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IMO, the key to being a good lover is paying attention, and responding to the other’s verbal and non-verbal signals. That’s pretty much all it takes. :)
It’s a totally worthwhile goal, though. :)
When I was young, this is all I wanted to grow up to be. I’m glad I didn’t have a baby when I was younger, with the wrong person, or when I was the person I was then…not ready. But now that I’m in my late thirties, I’m not sure if I’ll ever get the chance, and part of me feels empty at the thought. My life is full, with love, laughter, my family, and (every day) other people’s beautiful children. However, I would like a child of my own, whom I can love and nurture, whom I can help grow into the wonderful human being they are.
I think about my Mom, how much I love her, and how much fun we have together, and I want that relationship with my child, too.
