half a bottle of 151, a cup of malibu, put it in a jug and fill it up with pineapple juice. this party is offically jumping.
dcs010159's Life List
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1. drive to alaska
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2. hang out with a thuggin gangsta
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3. learn how to drive stick-shift
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4. see humpback whales in hawaii
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5. pull a prank involving 100 lawn gnomes
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6. travel the world
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7. do mysterious deeds
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8. have conversations late into the night with fascinating people
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9. stir things up
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10. fly
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11. hablar mucho en espanol
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12. thrive on very little sleep
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13. forget about food
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14. excel at home repairs
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15. speak up when i know things are wrong
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16. smile at strangers
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17. visit Greece and stay in one of those white houses with a blue door on a hill that overlooks the Mediterranean
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18. finish my summer journal
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19. find the square pegs episode with bill murray
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20. learn to skimboard
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21. visit all 50 states
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22. learn to snowboard
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23. read all the Newberry Medal winners
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24. see the Northern Lights
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25. get my own mac book pro
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26. have several thousand dollars stashed away in a private bank account
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27. embrace change
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28. build a deck
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29. drive from northernmost Alaska to Tierra del Fuego
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30. be a morning person
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31. stop craving junk food
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32. find a decent church
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33. own a ridculously expensive, dangerously fast car
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34. throw a kegger for the ygers
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35. take time for anyone who needs me
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36. be honest always
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well, this is a tricky one. deciding when things are “wrong” is a highly subjective notion, but i gathered a lot of independent opinions and factual information before taking action.
another tricky bit is to make the listener feel safe and trusted. hmm, this person saw my conversation coming and was rather defensive and prickly. i had to focus a lot of time and energy reassuring him that i was on his side.
and most tricky of all, i have no idea if i was successful. true, i did indeed speak up – and that was my stated goal. but will my words have any sort of lasting effect? a great journey takes many steps and i bet this one isn’t over just yet.
strange to entertain a baby with a group of teenagers – i am very glad she was too young to understand the ridiculous and wildly inappropriate things we were saying to her. she smiled way more at peek-a-boo than any of our jokes so i guess it proves once again that babies are smarter than we think.
