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deise_fe's Life List
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1. speak norwegian
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2. own a typing machine
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3. pass the DELE exam
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4. learn to play the xylophone
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5. have my own library
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6. see Paul McCartney in concert
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7. be like Lóri
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8. never apologize for being me
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9. sing a love song to someone
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10. stop being lazy
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11. give more hugs
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12. belly dance
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13. See all of almodovar's movies
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14. become fluent in spanish
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15. speak spanish fluently
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16. watch andy milinokis all day
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17. be Fitter, happier, more productive,
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18. understand why people are blogging and using flickr and doing 43things
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19. learn to cook mexican food
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20. weigh 105 lbs
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21. overcome borderline personality disorder
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22. accomplish at least one of my 43 things
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23. get better at keeping in touch with people who are important to me
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24. Take more pictures
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25. lose weight
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26. lucid dream
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27. fall asleep outside watching the stars with someone i care about
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28. watch Jules et Jim
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29. be organized
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30. use people's names when I greet them
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31. Volunteer
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32. write a book
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33. stop procrastinating
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34. read Ulysses
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35. pass the CPE exam
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36. not worry about what others think of me
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37. go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
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38. see of montreal in concert
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When you’re with the person you really want to be, holding hands is beautiful and warming and soft and secure…
I use to have this romantic notion.
In spite of all the sweat… That’s what I feel like doing now.
Lóri is a character from the book An Apprenticeship or the Book of Delights (Uma Aprendizagem ou O Livro dos Prazeres), written by the Ukranian/Brazilian Clarice Lispector.
The reason why I want to be like her is the following: she’s a teacher who lives alone. Finally, she mets a man called Ulisses. He’s a teacher as well. They fall in love, but can’t be together because she isn’t “ready” to feel what she feels: she’s… hmm.. Stuck. She doesn’t know how to live. But, they keep seein’ each other for months and months. He teaches her different sorts of things.
I want to learn what she has learned. I want to dream about my Ulisses… and he doesn’t need to be a teacher and teach me philosophy. I’d like to share ideas, feelings, fears… Just like a little girl should. ;)
The story is psychological and really intimate… quite difficult to explain what I felt after reading the book.

