I recently went back to school and am working towards earning my Associate’s degree and then on to a Bachelors. Well worth doing.
denise035's Life List
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1. have more money
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2. Have a truly one of a kind healthy and loving relationship
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3. Learn more HTML
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4. Learn to play the piano
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5. Learn to play the guitar
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6. Buy a newer car
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7. Become more organized
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8. Move out of this town
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9. Volunteer
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10. Have another child
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11. Spend more time drawing
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12. Believe in myself more.
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13. go to Hawaii
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14. Earn my Associate's degree
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15. Exercise more
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16. travel the world
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17. get my nipples pierced
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18. Learn how to sing
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19. Raise my credit score
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20. organize my photographs
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21. Speak a foreign language fluently
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22. visit my uncle Layne in Pennsylvania
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23. expand my circle of friends
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24. take a photography class
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25. Become a freelance photographer.
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26. Learn to sew my own clothes!
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27. develop my own photos
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28. Visit museums all over the world to see rare works of art
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29. get over my fear of heights
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Therapy is the number one priority that helped heal all the old wounds that caused me to create new ones. Healing my soul helped to keep me from further harming my body.
I learned that I was keeping alot of things inside. I learned to stay silent for my own survival for so long that it became unbearable emotionally and I knew no other way of coping.
I faced all of that and chose some alternate methods of dealing with things that felt unbearable such as taking walks, taking a drive while listening to some music, drawing, exercising (sometimes doing things that are really physically strenuous is a great substitution for the unhealthy pain of self-harming).
You also have to TRULY WANT to stop hurting yourself in order for you to be successful at it.
I was with a woman one time and it was such a turn-on. She’s someone that I was instantly attracted to and created a friendship with. The one thing we both agreed we were disappointed with was the fact that there wasn’t at least one man in the room to tend to us too!
I have since had sex with another woman (and her husband) and I’ve got to say it was even better than with the first. I felt more comfortable because both our significant others were there and we had established a comfortable friendship beforehand. Much trust was involved which I feel is very important.
