- having energy to get a bunch of stuff done
- clean laundry and dishes
- getting my neighborhood pizza joint to make me an eggplant sub (and quite a good one at that)
- my intern telling me the story of leaving Somalia with her family, and how it shaped her into the wonderful human being she is
- the enjoyment of making things a little prettier around here for Mr L’s visit… tomorrow!
Cloudberry's Life List
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1. develop my composing, singing, and performing career
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2. write a string quartet
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3. practice 'Happiness Manifesto' periodically
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4. love men but eliminate sexism
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5. do mitzvot and tikkun olam
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6. Go back to Israel
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7. treat my body as a temple and honor it daily
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8. each evening, make a plan for the next day
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9. overcome hypochondria
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10. stay connected to people I like
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11. keep my house neat
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12. see the big picture and work toward it
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13. get my apartment in saleable condition
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14. read a novel in Spanish
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15. Practice "And How Am I Like This?" when judgementalism, impatience or annoyance raise their smug heads
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16. post random stuff
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17. qualify as a life coach
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18. turn off the computer
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19. For Girl in the Curl: Prayers for a full recovery & Wellness Energy
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20. have fun
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21. leave the house by 8:30 and walk to the Metro
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22. take advantage of weekends to move forward in life
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23. not let middle age get the better of me
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24. look for a job in England
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25. make 2009 my best year yet
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26. weed out and donate clothes that don't fit
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27. develop a sustainable relationship
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28. get out of this job gracefully
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29. stop homophobia
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30. Attend the first international 43T Chianti party
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31. GLBT Pride Avatars Fortnight Plus 1 From June 16 to June 30 (Gay Pride Month, and you don't need to be GLBT to take on this goal, straight people can show their support too.)
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32. turn the page
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33. write a book
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34. save the fishes
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35. give Wren cheers and hugs
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36. bond with other INFPs
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37. wish Moose a birthday full of songs, laughter and notebooks on 27th May
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38. not get buried in paper
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39. List 43 things I have done as a result of being on 43T
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40. list something I learned each day
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41. adopt a cat
1 entry . 35 cheers182 people
How I did it: Spent a couple of hours interacting with a lovely British guy when he was over here. Shamelessly regaled him with email and Facebook attention. Invited myself to descend on him, once I'd decided that his resistance was probably futile, and regardless of that it was a good time for a holiday, and made plans to meet up with other lovely Brits as well. Booked plane ticket, taking advantage of strong dollar, and not worrying too much about th… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I only ended up submitting 3 or 4 poems over the course of the month. I really didn't have the time required, but that's OK. I liked most of what I produced, and really, reading other people's stuff was so inspiring. RuthG's leadership and prompts were fabulous! Read how I did it…
How I did it: It was sort of a last-minute thing. I turned on a timer for one hour, lit some candles, and sat on the couch with a beer and my guitar, and ended up writing a nice melody, and thinking again about a haiku cycle I'd written a couple of weeks ago. Read how I did it…
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Bored and unmotivated at work today, I decided to make good use of my time stuck at my desk. Thus far completely confused about my visa situation, I did some more poking around on the UK Border Agency website, and found a points calculator for the Highly Skilled Worker category.
Sure enough – if I’m understanding it correctly – I seem to have ample points to apply to show up in the UK and look for work, either for a UK organization or as self-employment! (And I am assuming the latter means I can do contract work for my current employer; I’m sure they’d be happy for me to bring money into their economy and pay taxes on it, right?)
So much better than one alternative, which is to broach the topic of getting engaged to one particular UK resident in order to get me in the door… eek! and frankly I don’t think he’d go for that either. I mean, it could happen, but when it does, it’ll be for the right reasons.
I seem to be the beneficiary of a whole new, close, happy, and rather large family.
Mr L’s sister just friended me on FB. I’ve never spoken to her, know little about her,and her only other friend so far is their mum. She has two brilliant kids I’ve seen lots of photos of, and she and all the siblings, aunts, uncles, &c are super-happy for Mr L – who has been making the rounds to tell them his news – and, by extension, me.
All this is pretty nice. I’m starting to feel bad, though, that my own mum is choosing to stay home from the party by not showing the least bit of curiosity about Mr L and what’s up with us. At first I was upset that she couldn’t seem to be happy for me (either because she’s assuming the whole thing is ephemeral – given my past history – or because he’s obviously not Jewish so why bother? although she doesn’t know the first thing about him. Apparently my trying to move to England is not enough of a sign that this is serious.). So now I’m mostly sad for her.

