This one was interesting. Guys get keys, women have the locks, subtle sexual metaphor here…. Everyone mingles with guys trying to open the womens’ locks. It was fun and it took me time to get into the swing of this one. I learned a lot about myself and where I could improve with dating. Onwards and upwards.
endorphin18's Life List
1. Have a job I love
2. Get organized and Stay organized!
3. be proud of my body
4. Kiss someone passionately
5. start dating again
6. have multiple streams of passive income
7. Become Financially Independent
8. Read one book a month
9. become more assertive via class and daily practice
10. be more self confident
How I did it: Started keeping four 2 liter bottles of spring water at my desk at work. I drink at least two of them daily and then refill the ones that I empty at the end of the day. As I drink I visualize my favorite vacation places to lessen the boredom of the water taste. I also add lemon juice to every other bottle to make things interesting.Other benefits: fewer headaches, feel more relaxed, better digestion. Read how I did it…
How I did it: decided to wrap my brain around the painful tasks that were important to do, but waiting in the wings for some time.... (-) created atmosphere (music, caffeine, etc) that was conducive to concentrating on task (-) established rewards for myself after completing the tasks (-) needed to determine task order -- what's most important to do 1st, 2d, 3rd, etc? Read how I did it…
How I did it: my ingredients- a couple years of counseling- made an effort to make good close friends- got to the gym more often > better shape > feel better- lower my standards at work and life (a little) Read how I did it…
I feel better about myself, but not as self confident as I want to be. I’m doing better in social situations, able to remember peoples’ names, start and close conversations with ease, make simple jokes. I’m still affected too much by what others say about me though. Contrary to the E Roosevelt wisdom that nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent, I let other’s opinions get to me. Good news is that I can improve with time. Keep at it.
trying to sift through all the forms my employer spits out for
my retirement plans and understand what’s going where… I
will prevail in this paperchase and simplify.