I'm doing 21 things
People are more attracted to people giving off a positive vibe. I feel like I can think of only 2 experiences where I came off exactly as I intended to because it worked out exactly as I wanted and I wasn’t worried or thinking about it at all- I just was myself. One time was when I was younger at a camp where I knew I’d only be with the people for a limited time, and the other was study abroad, where I also knew the connections I made weren’t going to last very long. I need to try to have that mindset all the time.
ernie31's Life List
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1. master the law of attraction
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2. learn to commmunicate better
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3. Learn Spanish
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4. get another piercing
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5. learn to cook more things
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6. keep up with current events
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7. have healthier relationships
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8. meet half sister, spend time with biological father
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9. hang glide
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10. see a blue whale
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11. swim in the Dead Sea
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12. travel pretty much everywhere
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13. Skydive
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14. get over my anxiety
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15. gain self acceptance
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16. find people who inspire me
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17. workout at least 4X/wk
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18. go back to Galway
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19. learn to put more energy towards things I find important
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20. pay off my credit cards
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21. live greener
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I haven’t had many healthy relationships yet. I think to work on this is mostly a matter of gaining self acceptance, confidence, and more respect for myself. I need to stop trying so hard to please everyone and stop worrying so much what others think of me.
