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Here’s my plan..

Announce that I will not discuss work.. Boring!
Spend my lunch time away from kitchen – go for walks, pray- stay away from negative people.
Tell people to speak to boss about their concernes
Give them a reality check..
Stop being negative..

Hakuna Matata!! It’s just Dunya, It’s just Dunya, It’s justy Dunya!

I’ll guess I can start with myself as I do a bit of the moaning too. I will start by thinking positively of work because:

1. I am learning a lot!
2. My boss has over looked my colour, hijab and lack of solid experience in certain aspects of the job and gave me an opportuniy.
2. I am learning so MUCH- Everyday.
3. I need this experience for my career progression..It is vital.
4. The money isn’t great but decent. I can help family, save money, pay off debts, buy me treats. It’s good money.
5. I love the main aspect of my job- kids. They inspire, amuse and give a reason to hope for a brighter future- corny!
6.I am not bored at home fearing for the death of my brain as I did for the last 3 years.
7. If it gets too bad- I can always leave. It’s not prison.
8. My boss has a good moments.. she actually listens to me and asks for my ideas… not bad!
9. There’s a few people that I like- genuinely.
10. I have a job- with the recession, that’s something.
11. I might be away from the kids for long – I still get to go home to them every night, read them stories, feed them, play with them.. That’s a blessing many mothers I’ve come across are deprived off..

I’ve the most negative collegues on earth at work.. BEFORE they even say hello on the first day of work – they start bitching… about the boss.. about their hours, their salary. The organisation we work for isn’t the best I’ve been at and that is the reason that I don’t these negative voices to keep reminding me… I want to be able to go in, do my work and leave with out the bitching, drama and moaning. I feel bad enough as it is. I’ve decided that since I was the one that applied for the job.. the one that continues to get out of my bed, leave my kids behind and go to work without being forced – I should learn to live with the bad. I’ll be there for a year and then I can look for a better job. Just one year. I will be okay.