failedasaparent

my sons bug me. they bother me. i am so horrible for thinking that. but when I come home from work, I want me time, instead of kids fighting time.

I am single right now and not into casual sex but I have been disapointed by sex before because I am not comfortable with my body and I am too self conscious to let go. I want to work on that

I failed. My sons are 7 and 11 and I failed as a parent. I am seprated and do shared custody. After last weekend with them, I came to the conclusion that we have NO quality time, my kids are spoiled ( even though we don’t have a lot of money) they don’t get along, they don’t listen to me and I just end up yelling a whole lot, eventhough I know it doesn’t do solve the problem, it doesn’t teach anything to my kids and generally just makes me feel shamefull after the storm has passed. Both have problems in school from academic to behavioral problems and I just don’t know what to do anymore.