Kelsey

thank you to everyone for the cheers on my coming-out posts <3



I'm doing 31 things
 

Kelsey's Life List

  1. 1. Spend less than 1 hour a day on the internet, excluding schoolwork
    1 entry . 17 cheers
    1 person
  2. 2. learn French
    5 cheers
    12,762 people
  3. 3. 145
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    5 people
  4. 4. Earn at a GPA of at least 3.8 this semester
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    1 person
  5. 5. have more adventures
    2 entries . 13 cheers
    172 people
  6. 6. write a book
    1 entry . 14 cheers
    31,076 people
  7. 7. Write one page of my current project every day for a week
    2 entries . 3 cheers
    1 person
  8. 8. Eat more fruits and vegetables
    1 entry . 13 cheers
    1,119 people
  9. 9. Take the Eowyn Challenge
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    1 person
  10. 10. visit more museums and galleries
    3 entries . 14 cheers
    69 people
  11. 11. Learn to drive a stick shift
    2 entries . 29 cheers
    742 people
  12. 12. go 7 days without complaining about anything
    2 entries . 21 cheers
    1 person
  13. 13. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
    3 entries . 8 cheers
    7,241 people
  14. 14. risk being loving, friendly, open, and kind
    2 entries . 27 cheers
    3 people
  15. 15. Get out and talk to people
    7 cheers
    1 person
  16. 16. draw more often, even though drawing really intimidates me
    6 cheers
    6 people
  17. 17. Make daily flossing a habit
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    1 person
  18. 18. Take a swing dancing class
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    7 people
  19. 19. Get in touch with with my style and purchase clothing accordingly
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    1 person
  20. 20. Do the Couch to 5k running plan
    2 cheers
    376 people
  21. 21. Create one new habit each month
    3 cheers
    4 people
  22. 22. study abroad
    2 cheers
    2,535 people
  23. 23. learn chinese
    1 cheer
    2,655 people
  24. 24. donate 1 gallon of blood
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    41 people
  25. 25. expand my musical tastes
    2 entries . 3 cheers
    7 people
  26. 26. adjust my introverted behavior so I seem more approachable and friendly when meeting people for the first time
    4 cheers
    0 people
  27. 27. learn Russian
    1 cheer
    2,803 people
  28. 28. Learn to code
    92 people
  29. 29. Eat for fuel, not because I'm stressed or grumpy
    4 cheers
    1 person
  30. 30. establish consistent sleep schedule
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    1 person
  31. 31. Get a job or an internship this summer
    2 cheers
    1 person

How I did it
How to come out
It took me
1 year
It made me
out and proud!


How to kiss her
It took me
6 days
It made me
happy and confident!


How to clean/Declutter (maintain the gumption)
It took me
7 days
It made me
live simpler


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Recent entries
Art History minor???
this is unfortunate

I finally got round to checking on this, and it turns out that my school doesn’t have an Art History minor. I COULD do a double major, but since my Chemical Engineering degree is a BS and the Art History would be a BA, I’d need to take about 20 more credits than usual, which would mean filling my schedule to the brim every semester from now till graduation and obliterating any chance of studying abroad.
So, nope. Not doing that. I’ll keep reading up on the material and visiting museums around campus, though.



come out (read all 6 entries…)
the aftermath

Mom was overwhelmingly accepting and even enthusiastic. I had included in the email that I’d already told two of my close friends, just so that each party wouldn’t feel like they’d have to cover for me if/when they crossed paths…I wasn’t expecting her to text them.
She did.
At least I got some funny messages during class out of that.
Dad’s still sort of in shock, I think. He sent me a message that either his email or my phone ate the last half of, so I’ve asked him so resend it. I just…I don’t know, I expected his reaction to be a little more like Mom’s? Happy that I’m seeing someone (finally)? Of course, his side of the family (a bunch of Southern Baptists) is a lot more traditional than Mom’s (which includes two sets of lesbian aunts and scads of adorable gaybies).

Okay, I got the second half. He’s still seems surprised but he’s being compassionate about it. I can live with that.



come out (read all 6 entries…)
I just emailed my parents

because I was going to do it over Skype today and chickened out. I know they’ll be absolutely great about it, but it was still a difficult thing to do. I don’t know why it’s so much harder to tell parents things than friends.
They may have gone to bed already, so I probably won’t get an answer till morning.



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