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fillyjonk

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  2. 1. meditate daily
    10 entries . 36 cheers     		3,979 people
  3. 2. not mess my kids up any more than i have to
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  4. 3. go on a road trip with my friend emma
    1 entry . 13 cheers     		1 person
  5. 4. be fearless
    2 entries . 12 cheers     		525 people
  6. 5. practise discipline and self-restraint
    6 entries . 12 cheers     		2 people
  7. 6. have some money left in my bank account at the end of the month
    2 entries . 7 cheers     		2 people
  8. 7. stop doing useless, time consuming things on my laptop for hours on end.... like this?..... nah
    3 entries . 7 cheers     		1 person
  9. 8. read 50 decent, or at least educational books this year, instead of numbing my brain with trashy fiction
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  10. 9. give more gifts
    1 entry . 4 cheers     		31 people
  11. 10. dedicate my orgasms to worthy causes!
    6 entries . 9 cheers     		1 person
  12. 11. learn to speak zulu fluently
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  13. 12. reflect daily in a 'one sentence' journal
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  14. 13. post random questions daily and see if anyone plays with me and answers them :)
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  15. 14. find someone to trade mix CDs with - and then do it!
    2 entries . 4 cheers     		6 people
  16. 15. master vrschikasana
    3 entries . 2 cheers     		1 person
  17. 16. start rising earlier
    2 entries . 7 cheers     		1 person
  18. 17. travel again, soon
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  19. 18. do yoga daily
    8 entries . 33 cheers     		162 people
  20. 19. start an NGO
    7 entries . 12 cheers     		36 people
  21. 20. work with my dreams regularly
    8 entries . 29 cheers     		2 people
  22. 21. have a productive vegetable garden
    5 entries . 41 cheers     		1 person
  23. 22. drink fresh juice every day
    6 entries . 20 cheers     		1 person
  24. 23. when i notice that i'm about to do something that involves copping out, avoidance tactics or a sudden attack of narcolepsy, make a different choice
    2 entries . 36 cheers     		4 people
  25. 24. make more real friends
    1 entry . 26 cheers     		148 people
  26. 25. start my own business
    4 entries . 15 cheers     		8,569 people
  27. 26. finish writing my book
    2 entries . 14 cheers     		457 people
  28. 27. list 100 things on 100 different days that i have done for the greater good
    8 entries . 9 cheers     		1 person
  29. 28. list 100 things on 100 different days that i am grateful for
    9 entries . 4 cheers     		1 person
  30. 29. stay open-hearted no matter what
    2 entries . 24 cheers     		2 people
  31. 30. study/practice tantric sex
    2 entries . 21 cheers     		2 people
  32. 31. be more organised
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  33. 32. eat only raw food for a month
    13 entries . 5 cheers     		1 person

How I did it
How to have great sex
It took me
2 weeks
It made me
blissful

How I did it: I was freaked out to begin with by my partner's complete ignorance of the female anatomy, and was nearly put off by his almost inept fumblings. But he's lovely! and had the requisite enthusiasm to make it worth some effort on my part. Luckily he was completely unthreatened by my highly detailed instruction, and given plenty of opportunity for practice and lots of feedback and encouragement is now&nb… Read how I did it…

Sep 27, 01:55PM PDT | 3 comments | 4 cheers


How to be an amazing art teacher
It took me
6 months
It made me
feel fantastic

How I did it: i only give the kids projects that allow them to use their own innate creativity and individuality- (no colouring in- no production line type manufacture of identical "art"- no tedious, ugly craft projects that fall apart in their bags on the way home) but instead as much freedom of expression as possible and the rest happens almost by itself. everyone loves and needs to be creative. people have been amazed by the art work thekids h… Read how I did it…

Jul 12, 04:20PM PDT | 0 comments | 1 cheer


How to never have a proper job again
It took me
1 year
It made me
ridiculously happy

How I did it: a few months worth of intensive slumping and sloth the slow blooming of delightful possiblilty a little bit of reaching out and making things happen a jumping in with both feet first and a war-like  cry Read how I did it…

Jul 12, 03:56PM PDT | 0 comments | 1 cheer


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Recent entries
eat only raw food for a month (read all 13 entries…)
days 4 5 and 6 3 weeks ago

i have had guests staying at my house all weekend who brought chocolate , i’ve sat through a weekends worth of meditation without needing to reward myself with muffins during breaks, i have managed to not even feel a twinge of desire when faced with the most delicious looking and smelling non raw food. still at it and damn it feels good.

may even manage to start getting up early to meditate as i have enough energy to spring out of bed without a backward glance these days.

Oct 19, 01:41PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


study/practice tantric sex (read all 2 entries…)
yes 3 weeks ago

intriguing. turning everything ive ever experienced before on its head and finding that it still works! and there’s more to be discovered than i imagined.

Oct 19, 01:28PM PDT | 0 comments


eat only raw food for a month (read all 13 entries…)
day 2 and 3 3 weeks ago

still raw, still yummy

Oct 15, 01:15PM PDT | 0 comments


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I want to:

The world wants to...

Photograph things with letters on them to spell out my name ladymuck wants to NOT see or contact him in any way/any form for 60 days read every book I own own a vacation home on the beach learn Latin watch Desperate HouseWives season 2 go to a nude beach go skinny dipping Become Financially Independent Learn to say no finish school early take better photos blincolnw wants to have multiple streams of passive income Fall in love Watch all episodes of "The Simpsons" ever made. go to New York Learn how to put make-up on like a pro live passionately call my mother more often become a better singer draw more Make a board game wooleyduck wants to Finish dishes every night before going to bed. watch less tv attend the World Cup in Germany 2006 be more lady like watch all of the new season of 24 write and publish a book
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