Being too nice is distabilising
Beinf friendly is making contact from a stronger place
Something like that anyway. It works
| 1. |
Practise Mindfulness
15 cheers |
1 person |
| 2. |
burst the self-improvement bubble and nurture self-acceptance
5 entries . 42 cheers |
4 people |
| 3. |
Go to the Life-Coach training in Leeds
2 entries . 3 cheers |
1 person |
| 4. |
STOP F$C&i£G WASTING MY LIFE
4 entries . 23 cheers |
2 people |
| 5. |
Learn how to assert my needs and risk being rejected / abandonned or dislike
4 entries . 25 cheers |
1 person |
| 6. |
Enjoy the French conversation group
1 entry |
1 person |
| 7. |
Say YES to life, to myself, to others, to good things in life!
2 entries . 47 cheers |
2 people |
| 8. |
Let someone in
2 entries . 24 cheers |
48 people |
| 9. |
see where love takes me
1 entry . 32 cheers |
6 people |
| 10. |
Learn to live in reality and be more productive
4 entries . 24 cheers |
1 person |
| 11. |
Find a p/t interesting counselling / meaningful job
7 entries . 18 cheers |
1 person |
| 12. |
Only wear clothes / accessories which make me feel really good
5 entries . 24 cheers |
1 person |
| 13. |
Be less nice and more friendly
2 entries |
1 person |
| 14. |
Commit - to somebody, to love, to life, to myself
2 entries . 13 cheers |
1 person |
| 15. |
Practice yoga / stretching daily
4 entries . 25 cheers |
1 person |
| 16. |
Do one different thing everyday
5 entries . 26 cheers |
1 person |
| 17. |
go to the dentist regularly
3 entries . 16 cheers |
19 people |
| 18. |
Develop a feeling of abundance
1 entry . 16 cheers |
1 person |
| 19. |
approach love and cooking with reckless abandon
5 entries . 12 cheers |
3 people |
| 20. |
Do expressive photography
7 entries . 17 cheers |
1 person |
| 21. |
Go to Luxembourg
1 entry . 9 cheers |
4 people |
| 22. |
embrace imperfection
2 entries . 28 cheers |
42 people |
| 23. |
Do much more night-walking accross unknown cities or wild places and go for dada-walks
3 entries . 7 cheers |
1 person |
| 24. |
Give someone a compliment every day
4 entries . 17 cheers |
16 people |
| 25. |
Go to a Augusto Boal workshop
1 entry . 1 cheer |
3 people |
| 26. |
never be 'too old'
1 entry . 10 cheers |
3 people |
| 27. |
act on my ideas
1 entry . 6 cheers |
5 people |
| 28. |
find healthy ways to manage stress
2 entries . 9 cheers |
2 people |
| 29. |
talk to people that i usually wouldn't talk to
1 entry . 7 cheers |
3 people |
| 30. |
Learn how to reach out
2 cheers |
1 person |
| 31. |
Get myself a really nice pair of boots
1 entry . 5 cheers |
1 person |
| 32. |
Explore Fellini's films
2 entries . 3 cheers |
1 person |
| 33. |
do random things to crack myself up
2 entries . 4 cheers |
2 people |
| 34. |
Enjoy being with myself - either in a relationship or not
1 entry . 8 cheers |
1 person |
| 35. |
Develop creative thinking
1 entry . 3 cheers |
1 person |
| 36. |
Clean my CDs
1 entry . 1 cheer |
1 person |
| 37. |
Visit David
1 entry . 1 cheer |
3 people |
| 38. |
Step out of my comfort zone
3 entries . 4 cheers |
183 people |
| 39. |
Explore the work of Russian classical composers
1 entry . 2 cheers |
1 person |
| 40. |
Go bunjee jumping or parachuting
1 entry . 1 cheer |
1 person |
| 41. |
Accept that I sometimes say the wrong thing and stop beating myself up because of it
1 entry . 7 cheers |
1 person |
| 42. |
Finish my Degree in Psychology
1 entry . 10 cheers |
4 people |
Being too nice is distabilising
Beinf friendly is making contact from a stronger place
Something like that anyway. It works
I organised a bit impulsively a free French conversation group with a woman I’d just met, in the view to publicize my teaching, and send it to almost everybody I know. However, I have become a bit weary of this woman behaviour, as I wish to keep a professional, if friendly, stance, and didn’t advertized it publicly as i first planned. but now, a few of my friends / acquaintance are coming and getting a bit worried…
I just need to chill out, try not to control everything and enjoy it. The group will look after itself.
Volunteered in a small festival and found myself helping around with lots of small practical issues, finding practical solutions and kept focused on practical outcomes as opposed to focusing on feeling weird about being around people – and ironically, I had good contacts with lots of different people!