flinterdun

you do things in your own time. i know now why i couldn’t push myself to do things; emotions can completely drain you of your energy and motivation, and it’s no use pushing yourself over your limits. listen to yourself, and take your emotional and physical health into account. don’t push yourself, ever. unless you’re truly a lazy bum, ofcourse. but don’t judge yourself too quickly, or too harshly.

it was my incredible low self-esteem that made me hold on to him for 2 years. but by breaking contact, and improving myself i eventually just.. forgot about him. take oscar wilde’s words to heart: to love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
and yes, i’m still quite happy with myself :)