She is going through hard times right now, and often, although I try to be helpful, I seem to be the opposite. I must try to respect her idiosyncrasies because my impatience makes her even worse. Besides, I think we could have much better times together if I could be more patient…
frumpy's Life List
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1. Worry less.
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2. Find a balance between the things I want to do and the things I need to do
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3. sell things on etsy
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4. Buy local and organic food
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5. Try something new every week
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6. ask why so many people want to 'have', 'get' and 'buy' instead of 'be', 'do', 'learn' and 'know', and perhaps make a few people stop and think about it
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7. Take more pictures
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8. eat five fruit/vegetables a day
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9. buy an old house and fix it up
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10. look people in the eyes
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11. be more patient
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12. stop feeling guilty
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13. Run
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14. focus more
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15. learn to give constructive feedback
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16. learn to sew
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17. spend more time in nature
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18. Visit Hessenpark regularly
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19. keep in touch with old friends
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20. Stop biting my cuticles
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21. Eat less sweets and help my colleagues do the same
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22. visit more museums and galleries
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23. Make Bad Brückenau's beauties known
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24. learn to sail
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25. eradicate the greengrocer's apostrophe
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26. learn to type
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27. Volunteer
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28. have a picnic
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29. improve my english
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30. increase my "world music" collection
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31. learn to dance
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32. work with the National Trust
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33. lower my blood pressure
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34. walk more
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35. make a video
147 people
Recent entries
... and went on several walks through the forest. We even started gathering mushrooms! We spotted many we didn’t know but that looked very interesting (which does not necessarily mean edible). In the end, we decided to eat only two that we were very sure about. Delicious! I’d love to live in the countryside… although I know that it is not only romantic and peaceful but might be tiresome in the long run because of lack of infrastructure and long commuting hours every day.
... mainly because I wanted it. And now I am typing this on it. It’s just awesome!
So this decision definitely scores on the side I want to emphasize more! Well done!
